You are the one who knows your F/O best, no matter what. Even if you and another self shipper share a character, you know your F/O the best and they know theirs the best. When it comes specifically to self[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I really love the f/o community and the whump community because they’re places where we can all vibe together on the same kinds of themes and elements and share posts and ideas etc, while all having wildly different fandoms and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, that is absolutely and totally okay. I would go so far as to say that that is the typical experience that people who are not plural and not fictionkin have with their F/O. Knowing that a character isn’t real[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I’m so glad to help, and like I said, I really hope your system member enjoys the F/O community! Just remember, when a fictive system member or a fictionkin F/Os someone from their source who is no longer someone they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you for clarifying! Your system member can (and should, if he wants to) absolutely call his crush from his source his F/O and treat them like an F/O in the community. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey! Thanks for the message! <3 I’ll try to help. So, let’s see– you said that the F/O (we’ll use that term for now) does not exist in your system, and you don’t personally know anyone with that character in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Well, this is an easy question for us to answer because almost all of Sinister System’s F/Os are either in our system, or in our partner system! When that’s the case, F/O posting becomes a sort of game we play[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you much for the question! In 2019 we had pretty much completely fallen out of fandom spaces online, not really engaging in reading fanfic, art or discussion. Rather, we were pretty much only interested in the fictionkin side of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Shout out to all of us self shippers who enjoy an absolutely toxic, fucked up relationship with our F/Os. Let those rancid vibes wash over you. π
Your F/O thinks loving thoughts and daydreams about you when you aren’t around.
π Your F/O loves you even when you don’t love yourself. π Your F/O loves you even if you feel unlovable. π Your F/O loves you even if you don’t think you’re worthy of it. π Your F/O loves you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
π Your F/O loves you no matter what. π Your F/O loves you no matter what other people say. π No one but you and your F/O can decide how your F/O feels about you. π Nobody knows your F/O[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Nostalgic F/O asks π What’s your first memory with your F/O? Β β°If you could live in any time period in history with your F/O what would it be and why? π½ Talk about your first kiss with your F/O. πͺ[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
In general I prefer to ship myself with a f/o who is romantically forceful or romantically aggressive. an f/o who is romantically shy, or romantically accommodating. an f/o who is neither particularly shy nor particularly forceful. See Results
Ask for OTPs and Self Ships copied from a now gone post and blog: original url https://glitter-and-gasoline-deactivate.tumblr.com/post/687208822931095552 TW: angst, suggestive content, etc. Who would end a heated argument by defending their actions with βbecause I love you!β ? What would[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I *primarily* ship my F/Os with myself as I am. an OC/self-insert that I consider strongly based on me. an OC/self-insert that I consider only loosely based on me. a canonical character from the source material who is my kintype.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Pick your favorite for your self ship(s): friends to lovers enemies to lovers love at first sight See Results
My best advice is mostly the same for getting into any section of online fandom– post what you love, and block what you hate. if there are vocal people who are nasty or just uncomfortable to be around, just block[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
My best advice is mostly the same for getting into any section of online fandom– post what you love, and block what you hate. if there are vocal people who are nasty or just uncomfortable to be around, just block[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
engineering-my-heart: Me presenting my friends a new F/O I now ship with. darkheart-despairs https://ift.tt/Io2h8j9
engineering-my-heart: Me presenting my friends a new F/O I now ship with.
So with the new TOS does that include self ship posts for anime characters that are technically minors but donβt look it since a lot of my moots and I ship with characters from JJBA? They would still technically fall[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gentle warning to the self ship community: if you are under the age of 18 and self ship with an adult character, any suggestive fic or art you create between yourself and your F/O could seriously and legitimately be considered[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
and now they’re blocked. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Real talk, are other people getting anons from this wild self ship hater, or is it just this blog? Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Oh fun we get to add ableism and sanism to the list along with heternormative and aphobic! So are you not attracted to personality traits or physical traits that are represented by lines on a page? That must be hard[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I don’t want kids. My spouse is sitting next to me on the couch right this moment. I am leaning over and kissing them sloppy style after I hit post. Not everyone wants to have a relationship with a real[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Honey, I’m married, and both me and my spouse have F/Os. You can live in your “no fun ever” corner and be sad while all of us and our F/Os are enjoying ourselves. I hope you enjoy making rules for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, the advice I give you depends strongly on an important factor. Are your F/Os system members, soulbonds, or other real, people with agency of their own that you share your internal experience with in some way? or are they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey @ikillproshippers has reposted this imagine of mine without permission. It would be a huge favor to me if you could block and report them, and maybe like and reblog the original post of mine!
All self ships are great. β¨ All self shippers are great. β¨ It’s great to be a self shipper. Your f/os love you no matter what. β€οΈππ
I think this post our Jasmine made the other day is a pretty good intro to the kinds of things people do! There’s no guide tho, you just do what makes you happy! And you can totally ship yourself with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some ideas for ways to celebrate your relationship with your F/O π Curation based Hoard pictures of your F/O on social media, a website, or saved on your harddrive.Β Print out pictures of your F/O and create a shrine for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I love fanfiction, because I can imagine a world in which you held me close.
I guess if anybody wants to give me $100 to get a self ship forum/message board started as described in this post I can have it ready by the weekend. I can also do it for free but we wouldn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thinking about how small the active self ship/ f/o community is. If we imagined the current community on the old web, we could easily all be sharing the same busy, active message board, with an irc chat and a dozen[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Getting a new fictional crush, like– I am very F/Ond of them. π
F/O Fuck, Marry, Kill New self ship game, “fuck, marry, kill” but it’s different than the usual game. Send the person sharing this an ask with one of their F/Os and the either the word “fuck”, “marry” or “kill”. Fuck:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I honestly have no idea. I think the rule of thumb is have fun and do what you want!
This blog is going to be a year old next month. I, Toko (πΌπͺ) started the blog when I wanted to get the self shipping community. Self shipping, and self inserts–before they had a separate community, and then were just[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Allow me to reassure you: liking fiction that’s by a bad person, even if it’s a really bad person, does not make YOU a bad person. You can enjoy a piece of fiction without supporting the author or their ideals.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You’re at Dennys or another all night diner at 2 or 3 in the morning with your F/O. Why are you there, how exhausted are you , and what are you and your F/O ordering?
Reblog and share what pet names your F/O has for you. Mine calls me his hound, and ‘bright eyes’.
When you snuggle with your F/O are you the big spoon or the little spoon?
Anon, you should! A friend of Toko’s who is sadly no longer with us got us to finally engage with the community last year, and it has been a great experience for all of us. The self ship community, especially[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
2003-2005ish era self ship art from my photobucket! Array of S/Is with Syndrome, Otto Octavius, Snively (from Sonic) and… sigh…. Stinky (Casper 1995).
Maybe it’s just my own experience talking, anon, but I feel like DILFs are the original F/Os. Like don’t get me wrong, more power to people with non-dilf f/os (I have a lot of lady f/os myself these days) but[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Self-insert! It’s the version of “you” that you ship with your fictional other, or an OC that you ship with them that you project yourself on.
Self ship prompt: You and your F/O switch bodies for the day! (either your body or your S/I, either works). π€£ Share a funny anecdote about the swap. π€― What’s something you learn about one another due to the swap?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
First of all, anon, no matter what, you are not a poser. Self shipping is very personal, and kind of means something different to every person who does it. should i be treating my relationships with my f/o’s like they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Types of romantic partners I like (in fiction): π© Murderers π© Con men & grifters π© CEOs & Businessmen π© Condescending manipulators π© Unethical scientists π© Sadists & torturers π© Sleezy sex pests π© Control freaks π© Villains of all[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Language of Flowers ask game The language of flowers is a complex understanding of symbols and meanings that goes back centuries. Each unique bloom has its own meaning when given and received. Your followers can send your f/o flowers to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Toko here! Reglog with a pic of your F/O and I will write a haiku or other short poem about them, purely from the picture and/or my personal knowledge of them in canon!
I don’t know if this is something people already do, or would be interested in or not (lol) but I’m going to start posting some F/O imagine prompts based around putting yourself/your S/I and your F/O in various AU scenarios[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So James Sunderland is honestly probably my only F/O who’s not either in our system, or our partner’s system. He’s just, a guy that I have a super huge crush on and could imagine being in a relationship with. Heheβ¦[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Me & Kazuichi ship meme (βΏβ‘βΏβ‘) We have a very chill, casual relationship.
Another ship meme :3 me and bestie~~
decided to start doing some of these. :3 Otto and me first! ( β’Μ Ο β’Μ )β§
Actually yes, lets make F/E be a thing! Not to be too homestuck on main but the idea of blackrom selfshipping has a good vibe!!!
Question for fellow self shippers: Do you usually prefer thinking about your F/O allowing themselves to be vulnerable around you, or thinking about allowing yourself to be vulnerable around your F/O?
Self-Insert and F/O Shipping Prompts Ask Game 1: How did your S/I and F/O meet? 2: Whatβs the thing that most attracted your S/I to your F/O when they met, and the other way around? Were there any complications on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
reblog if you want your F/O to hold you in their arms and rock you gently when youβre upset and sad.
Aside from Xelloss, my other first two F/Os when I was a teenager were James from Pokemon and Reno from FF7. Back then, I was about 15, and I had βshrinesβ to all of them in the form of printed[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
~~Send an emoji to ask about one of my F/Os~~ π The Fool: How did you first discover or meet your F/O? π§ββοΈ The Magician: Whatβs a strength or talent that your F/O has that you admire or that draws[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…