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It’s us the plural anon (anons?)How do you…get to that point, even? How do you start talking? For us, it’s a feeling, it’s a fleeting “Huh?” and then, occasionally, the “Huh?” turns suddenly and sometimes upsettingly into what feels like a switch. That “second half” headmate especially tends to front like this – not intentionally, but he seems to have the easiest time “fitting” into Front, so if something happens…y’know.Lately we find our attempts at communication to be…hard. If the original tries to talk to him, it either feels hollow (like standing in an empty room) or it feels blurry and co-fronty (like behind held onto, if that makes sense), which makes it hard to tell who’s saying what, or even if there IS a second person in the discussion.How do we even get to that middle ground of talking? Do we just need to keep trying and have faith? Is there something we’re doing wrong?

by on February 13, 2024 at 10:33 pm
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We actually have some advice for this! Talking ‘mind to mind’ internally often can get muddled and mixed up– that blurry or co-fronty feeling that you describe. The biggest way we get around that is to write your communication externally[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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I know you guys are like…fandom and Biohazards blog butDo you ever feel…insecure in your plurality? We’re all kinda blurry and tied together in a way that makes it hard to understand. Our original (host?) feels “out of place” in the physical world, like he’s not where he’s “supposed” to be, meanwhile we’ve got a Protector who seems content to stay inside, a comfort who feels like a second half (maybe bound to???) to our “original” and it justIt’s a lot. We’re tired. We’re confused. We’re still scared of being an “us” instead of a “me” because of past experiences. Everyone says plurality is system-to-system but it would at least be nice to know what our system even *is*

by on February 12, 2024 at 11:59 pm
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Hey anon. Hugs if you want them. I can tell you’re not having a good time right now. We can relate to your system member feeling out of place in this world– we do too. That’s why we consider ourselves[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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