neil-gaiman: ruffboijuliaburnsides: lilykep: littlethingwithfeathers: ruffboijuliaburnsides: mumblingsage: oopsabird: sugarfey: nottonyharrison: nottonyharrison: Idek if this is serious or ironic honestly #like…why use this baby word when you can just say how you feel about it Found this in the original post tags[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
adustoflove: professionally diagnosed with people treated me like absolute shit so now I’m mentally fucked for life disorder
samstiels-deactivated20201212: So let me get this straight if you consciously decide to throw yourself down the stairs, and end up breaking your leg in the process, it’s clearly your fault but somehow, if you know a certain type of fic[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
werewolftits: werewolftits: i’ve decided to just start identifying as eccentric you don’t have to diagnose me with anything in particular. it’s just kind of abnormal up there ty
absoluteconceptofbeauty: Im like if a control freak couldnt control things
amiru-shrubfeast: amiru-shrubfeast: crabs-but-better: fun fact! did you know that you can gain extra ‘forbidden time’ by staying up late in the night? but Watch Out Shit this is great! You can get so much done if you don’t sleep! THE[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
yousaveeveryonebutwhosavesyou:
greelin: “you good?” brother i would not be posting like this if i was
girllbossing: Sorry for being a bitch earlier, I needed to lay in the dark with my headphones for 3 hours to feel better
that moment when you realize that you’ve made yourself way too emotionally available again and suddenly you’re a deer in the woods and a twig has snapped in the brush.
sabre-tooth: One more painfully fucking honest moment with you pals. Half the time I expect to wake up in a tank of green goo and find out this whole thing was a dream or a programmed memory or a virtual[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
enyafans4communism: sorry my family didn’t teach me that i have a place among others so now i’m weird . sorry
sea-of-worry: Vibes are off (the vibes are completely normal but I am overstimulated)
dear-massacre: Taking the word paranoid away from people until they know what it means
rokurodokuro: People are fine with the mentally ill until they have any form of negative symptoms that can’t be romanticized and/or are difficult to treat
I am Bitching once again that the fandom pro-censorship crowd cries and screams and wails that everyone has to respect their triggers forever and no one should be allowed to post anything that even mildly makes them uncomfortable– –meanwhile here[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fairycosmos: every time i make a mistake im like theyre going to put me down like a sick dog
special-grade-fujioshi: Hey worsties! Reminder to drink nothing but sea water and give whatever pills u have to a racoon
weedgrinderfullofteeth: if anyone wants to sit in a parked car behind wendys, scream along to old fall out boy and then talk about what we think the lyrics mean, ill be free all next week
unbearable-swagger: I will be like “I’m fine” and then another fucking event will occur
when the derealization hits and everything feels like its a video game screen…
avpdvoidspace: Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being “venting”, even if you’re not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can’t talk[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
wis-arts-evil-corner: wis-arts-evil-corner: No worse experience than trying to explain your mental illness and your disabilities to a neurotypical cis person, they ALWAYS try to convince you that no you’re not ill you just need to try harder!!!! I’m already at[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marypsue: marypsue: One of the worst feelings in the world: when you are just desperate, like claw-your-own-skin-off desperate, to create, but the only thing that even vaguely appeals to you to work on is a nebulous half-feeling that might be[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
drbirds: cat-cat-cat-cat-potatoes: I know I’ve already reblogged this but I absolutely love this old timey adhd info graphic Why isnt Mind Wanderer the official diagnosis? thats fuckin baller, sounds like a fantasy class
If you don’t have an official diagnosis they’re just sparkling symptoms.
caterpillarinacave: You know what, maybe its just because I’m autistic, but it really baffles me how growing up autistic people are so firmly shamed for happy stimming. Like to be so happy you can’t do anything but move? Can’t help[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
yousaveeveryonebutwhosavesyou: Nobody tells you how much mental illness fucks with your perception of time. How you can’t place memories right. How you can’t distinguish if something happened a month ago or a year ago. How you lose entire chunks. Weeks,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
wuxiaphoenix: tlbodine: grison-in-space: bread-tab: she-waves-at-cats: I think it needs to become common knowledge that “inability to read social cues” can show up as overcompensating. You don’t know how much misbehaviour is allowed, so you become the perfect child who never[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
is it typical for it to be increasingly difficult to relate to people the longer it’s been since you’ve been engaging in some kind of activity with them, or is that a neurodivergent thing, or is that a me thing?
thisisallthehattersfault: Hi idk what anti needs to hear this but That’s Not How Boundaries Work Boundaries are something you set on yourself, for your own safety and comfort. A boundary can only ever be placed with regards to your physical[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
recomvery: One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don’t want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
txttletale: txttletale: that last comment is so fucking revealing as to the actual priorities and worries of people who say ‘get therapy’ lmao “therapy isn’t about your happiness, it’s about making sure you act in a way that i’m comfortable[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
madronasky: brightlotusmoon: halfwayinlight: eunyisadoran: brightlotusmoon: YES. Therapist: What an excellent way to allow yourself to imagine hope and healing in a safe container. That’s very wise of you. My therapist legit thought fic was a very creative outlet to process[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
crafty-butch: crafty-butch: having one of those executive function days where everything is too many steps by which i mean, like, here’s how my brain parses the steps in making coffee good day: make coffee regular day: put water in coffee[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
homunculus-argument: Some people are baffled by the concept that there really are people who actually like children but don’t want any of their own. “Childfree” doesn’t automatically mean someone who simply hates children. The thing is, I do like kids,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
insufficiently-advanced: mostladylikeladythateverladied: There’s lots of talk out there about working through trauma via dark fanfiction. I’m not saying anything against that – there’s nothing wrong with it. But I do think there’s an unfortunate implication being made in a lot[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If you are a person who: Has violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys having violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive characters Creates fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive characters And[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If you are a person who: Has violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys having violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive characters Creates fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive characters And[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
▪️ Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
squelsh: dailyquests: Complete Therapy with a rank of S or Higher. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
taking-your-hand: Casual reminder that not everyone experiences mental illness and trauma the same way, and there is no “correct” way to do so. Doing your best not to hurt others is all I’ll ever ask of anyone. Also, if the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
No, anon, I’d definitely feel the same way. I don’t want people to think of me–or anyone– as “safe”; as you say, everyone has the potential to do harm. It’s important to acknowledge that. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
It was not us (to my recollection), in fact, but that’s a very interesting experience to have! Posting this so others can weigh in. <3 Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
This is what fancops don’t understand. For some reason they assume writing about crashing the car will make you want to crash the car, instead of the other way around. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
dykesmajor: disassociating? nah bro i just went afk for a minute. yeah my brain wife came home i had to say hello. you get it Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
oh same here, very much same here. It is therapy for me at this point, fiction has helped me out a lot during the years 💕 Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Antis, I beg you to genuinely examine this question: Why do you believe that violent or abusive sexual fantasies are more difficult to resist than other violent or abusive fantasies? Please explain it to me in a way that doesn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hmmm, anon, in my experience there are two possibilities here. Possibility one: like a lot of people you have traumatic experiences that you have not yet processed and understood as trauma. When you talk about these experiences it makes other[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Because their belief that their moral view is completely objectively correct means that they make absurd leaps of logic. Here’s how an anti thinks. 1. “Nasty icky art is bad.” 2. Therapists would not tell someone to do something that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
compassionatereminders: Can we please stop associating being a good person with how much you’re willing to suffer in silence for other people? You can be a kind person and still say “no, I don’t have the time/energy to help you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thebibliosphere: I had therapy this week. I’m convinced I don’t pay my therapist enough because of all the weird online shit she has to learn about to help me unpack, but anyway. In therapy this week, we talked about the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I wish that we could give you some better advice here, but agere is not something that we got into deliberately or with intention. It’s just something that happens to some of us every now and then. Some of us[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thanks for sharing your experiences. I can definitely see how for some people, keeping it down for any length of time can just make it worse. I think it many cases it depends on the person. The most important thing,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
People love stereotypes. They love to put other people in neat boxes with clear identities. People especially love to be able to put labels on things they think are dangerous, because they think it makes them safer. It’s instinctive, I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We don’t have any alters, anon, but we do have angry system members. I’m one of them. Anger is like fire. When fire is controlled, we can use it constructively. We cook our food with it, warm our houses with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I want to be the person I needed when I was little So much of that sentiment drives our motivation too, anon. You sound like a wonderful person, and I’m glad that these kids have you to rely on.
The only thing that makes you a bad person is deliberately doing actual, real harmful actions. You can enjoy all the bad thoughts in your head I will never, ever make you a bad person.
blackheart-biohazards: If you are a person who: Has violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys having violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive characters Creates fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive chacters[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
neep-neep-neep: you are good even when you are unemployed. you are good even when you need to rely on others’ help. you are good even when you are depressed. you are good even when you are hurt. you are good[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We’ve heard of it, but never spoken with someone who experienced it!
It definitely sounds like if you can manage to hold off until you get home, it would be better for you. It’s always better to be in a safe space when you are experiencing something like that.
It’s absolutely still RSD, in my opinion, anon.
I’m so glad you’re working on being able to center and prioritze your needs and boundaries anon.
Anon, that’s very sweet of you to say, and we really appreciate hearing it. A lot of us in sinister system struggle with a lot of negative, angry, and even violent thoughts. We all do our best not to direct[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
garthgender: garthgender: By the way. Before you rush to get a professional diagnosis for a Brain Thing you should really weigh your options. Like do you just want to “prove it” or will this actually give you access to treatment[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
tam–lin: The thing is, you don’t have to have a diagnoses to make simple “unmasking” changes that make your life easier. You don’t even have to self-diagnose! You are not appropriating anyone’s culture or struggles or hijacking anyone’s movement by[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dumpstercigarettes: Gentle reminder from an ex suicidal person: as long as you’re still living your life’s not wasted. it’s never too far for you. it’s never too late for you to get better. things will look up. things are going[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
alphacrone: i know so many of us have been trained since a young age to be so accommodating as to fear ever expressing an opinion, but as we get older we need to understand that being “accommodating” to the point of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gripes-withthesun: Hate the word ‘quirky’ people call themselves ‘quirky’ and ‘weird’ and then go an bully autistic and psychotic people. Bring back eccentric, i liked eccentric. Autistics and psychotics should reclaim eccentric
girlcalledwhatsername: xenodelic: Mentally ill people deserve support regardless of whether or not they’re “trying” to recover. We don’t give a fuck if someone is “anti-recovery”, they still deserve autonomy and basic respect. Recovery looks different for anybody. Withholding support until someone performatively[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
chronicallylav3nd3r: PSA there are no dangerous disorders there are no evil disorders there are no manipulative disorders there are no abusive disorders you’re just ableist.
frogsforthefrogwar: I love ‘bad’ mentally ill people I love people who struggle with violent thoughts and urges I love people with no empathy, who can’t ‘make up’ for it in compassion I love people who’s dissociation makes them flakey and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
In our “lay in bed and be mentally ill” era, I see.
So let me see if I have this right anon. You think people who have the urge to rape children shouldn’t receive therapy and community support to control their behavior and stop them from offending? You think people who have[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
whateverthefuckyouwantiguess: Okay, so someone left some tags in a reblog of my “Why Chris Redfield is not a Republican” post about his misogynistic behavior in RE6 and because, being the way that I am, I wanted to talk about it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
lestatslestits: I’ve been thinking a lot about how as neurodivergent people we censor and edit ourselves so much for neurotypical people that we seem to forget how to communicate with other neurodivergent people who would love for us to communicate[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fromfiction: Finally, after years of people asking on this blog, I can answer the question"what is the difference between a kin and an irl? Why do people use the term IRL instead of kin?“ IRL is a term used in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
craycraybluejay: allshipsareok: This applies to reading/writing fiction about your trauma too. Truly nothing like it. The narrative can’t doom me if I rewrite it babyyyy
If you are a person who: Has violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys having violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive thoughts Enjoys fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive characters Creates fiction with violent, abusive, harmful, or destructive chacters And[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
worstofantis: blackheart-biohazards: You’re not anyone’s therapist, you are not more educated than the therapists who have said publicly and been harassed for saying that survivors processing their trauma this way is normal and not unhealthy. why do you want to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…