I don’t want to talk too much about child abuse directly on my blog, mainly because it tends to attract bad faith arguments, and occasionally the tumblr staff banhammer– But yes, exactly. The people who want to make it an[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
self-loving-vampire: self-loving-vampire: I feel like a lot of people don’t really fully grasp the idea that abusive parents exist and are both common and, to a degree, socially acceptable. Like, they may be aware of the fact but have not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sweaty-confetti: sweaty-confetti: if i have to see someone use the word “grooming” one more time in an incorrect way i’m going to start throwing things. like YES this person had an inappropriate relationship with this other person. YES this person[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I used to talk more about my experiences of having endured child abuse, and other abusive situations publicly on tumblr. And then the blog I discussed those things on was banned for doing so, nuked so hard that every post[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
darkdaemon: blackheartbiohazards: 🔹 Someone else’s fiction cannot cause you physical harm. 🔹If someone else’s fiction is causing you emotional or psychological harm, or distress, you can put it down and not read/watch it. 🔹Your emotional well-being is not the responsibility[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sweatermuppet: i think “oh my childhood doesn’t even impact me that much” & then im Afraid To Sit in The Living Room
I had to ignore that youtube video for *months*, every time the algorithm brought it up on my page. A person cannot be groomed by a piece of fiction. Grooming is an intentional act that is perpetrated on purpose by[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
avpdvoidspace: Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being “venting”, even if you’re not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can’t talk[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
nientedal: into-the-weeds: wagnetic: thepeacefulgarden: [Text: In recovery circles, I’ve heard this described as “going to the hardware store for oranges.” In this case the hardware store is your parents and the oranges are the love and support you rightfully wish[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
golvio: fnord888: Child abuse is a big problem, so it’s important that we don’t let children communicate with adults except their parents and other official authority figures. Everyone knows the best way to prevent child abuse is to keep children[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
maria-sklodowskas-twix-bar: blackheartbiohazards: folgers-offical: just-antithings: nope Also a good chunk of actors don’t care. I’ve seen professional wrestlers share fanfic about themselves on their Twitter and the most they say is like a lighthearted joke like “inaccurate I’d never eat a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
blankspace17: The reoccurring theme of being unwanted in your childhood and seeing yourself as some kind of monster and how you feel like you have to move mountains to get people to like you
teaboot: When I was a kid, I regularly lost reading privileges for “having an attitude” and “acting out”. It wasn’t as simple as being told not to read during other activities- one of the first times it happened, I remember[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
teaboot: When I was a kid, I regularly lost reading privileges for “having an attitude” and “acting out”. It wasn’t as simple as being told not to read during other activities- one of the first times it happened, I remember[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So here’s an interesting development in this saga. It turns out that the rules on harm to minors in the community guidelines have been unchanged since January of 2020. (wayback link) Which begs three questions. why did people think it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Day 3 reminder that tumblr is now banning blogs that include posts with: victims discussing their experiences of child sexual abuse suggestive art of characters who are drawn in a soft, chibi, or kawaii style. suggestive art of characters who[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
then maybe dont talk about your trauma on tumblr? there are other places where you can talk about such shit. no one wanna hear bout that here blackheartxbiohazards
“parents have a right to try to control what their children read” [kill bill sirens blare and blood starts seeping from the walls] wrong answer try again!! blackheartxbiohazards
vague-humanoid: ALT View on Twitter Sex Ed Books Don’t “Groom” Kids and Teens. They Protect Them. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Shockingly, nice people are kind and accepting of weird behaviors and like to have fun. It’s amazingly only controlling assholes who think it’s right to abuse people into obeying strict social norms. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Hey folks, pro-abuse bullying anon is back. Or another one like ’em. Come get your free thumps in since they love and value abuse so much. This guy wants to be the fun police? Show ’em how we treat cops.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh my gosh…. D: Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
My friend, we have received so many messages that involve the term “grooming” lately I have no idea whether it was your message that we were reacting to or not V_V I am so sorry that you went through that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Our abusive IRL father was a child groomer. When we were young, he would repeatedly take in young teenage runaways, often who were addicted to drugs and alcohol, give them a place to stay in our home, and keep them[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hot take; saying someone “was groomed” and giving no other information about it gives me literally zero idea of what kind of abuse was actually done to the person. Which is totally okay if you don’t want to share your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The irony is that Bella actually wields a lot of personal agency in Twilight, she just doesn’t use it in socially approved Strong Female Character ™️ways. Sending love, anon, sorry your parent was like that. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
because people both offline and off think it’s okay to treat CSEM lightly for different reasons. V_V its super gross. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
smokedsalmoniloveyou: neglect is kinda like grooming in the way that you’re proud of it when you’re so young because you’re special and mature and maybe it wouldn’t be okay with another kid but you’re different than them. you’re better. it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
▪️ Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
kingofthebouncycastle14: nsfwitchy: last-knight-who-was: nsfwitchy: They really just drop in that Komaru got molested by her grade school teacher Wait, really? I don’t remember that. Yeah there’s a scene where Komaru says she saw her teacher as a “living ghost” and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It both surprises me and doesn’t surprise me. It surprises me that someone would say it out loud, but not that someone would hold that belief. Then again there are people who proudly say that you should beat your children[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fancops who say this don’t understand the concept of abusive, toxic, or neglectful parents. Trust me we have tried to explain. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Um, actually, I think you better pick up a comic book, anon because I’m pretty sure bullying turns you into a bitter but charismatic super villain. seriously though, take your pro-child abuse takes elsewhere. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
🔹 It’s okay to have a bad relationship with your mother. 🔹It’s okay to not have a relationship with your mother. 🔹It’s okay to not want to have a relationship with your mother. 🔹You are a complete and whole person[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
beaniebaneenie: headspace-hotel: littledeconstruction: jaywrites101: rogha: ravingsrandom: Holy fucking shit yeah I’d carry that one over too Stuff like this hit’s really close to home with me because I had an abusive paternal figure growing up. It’s easy for you to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
scyllascriptor: amozon28: bastart13: What I’d give for one of the Cinderella remakes to go into how when you’re in an isolated and abusive situation, sometimes you need to be saved and you’re not weak if you can’t escape by yourself[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
firebuggg: “parents have a right to try to control what their children read” [kill bill sirens blare and blood starts seeping from the walls] wrong answer try again!! Source: xxharryosbornxx
Reminder: Do not listen to the self-destructive urge to return to the environments and dynamics that caused your PTSD simply because they are familiar to navigate. 😔
scientistservant: I want antis to actually look at my selfships before telling me I’m a *squints at piece of paper* “child abuser”
To all of us who need to hear it today: “they’re family” doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. “they never hit me” doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. You don’t have to like someone who violates your boundaries. Being nice to you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“motherhood and pregnancy aren’t comparable to drawn pedophilia or rape or incest, though, are they? @eerie-entityy do you realize that what you have just said is that you think that some people’s trauma and triggers are not as important as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…