orcgirlcock: hatingongodot: hatingongodot: BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it’s a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like “PUT MY[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
transcowgirlslut: it’s kind of bullshit that people will react with horror to me discussing my fantasies/kinks until i clarify I’m the sub in them. like even my therapist was all like “ohhh it’s ok to want to hold power so[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
principaliteas: “anti-kink” is so funny to me. ohhh you’re scared of sexy make-believe? ok. lol
fernwah-funzone: wait you understand that kinks are ok because they’re fantasies that make you happy right? you all get that you don’t need to have trauma for your kinks to be okay? right? like none of you think i witnessed[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.
Tell me you’ve swallowed the terf and conservative anti-porn rhetoric, without telling me (or knowing yourself) that you’ve swallowed the terf and conservative anti porn rhetoric.
things-antis-say: exciting news! i now have a page for links to studies about common proship talking points. if an anti ever says “prove it,” now you can! (the link doesn’t work in the app, if you’re on mobile you’ll have[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…