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Posts Tagged kink
sweet-dyke-guts: anyway i just think we should talk more about how pushy subs can get and how we collectively need to be more mindful of doms’ boundaries. personally i’m a switch and i almost always end up domming bc of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
renthony: renthony: renthony: renthony: To a homophobe, even the most chaste kiss on the cheek between gay people is exactly as disgusting and degenerate as a hardcore BDSM orgy hosted in the town square, so you may as well ally[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
open-sketchbook: I have a new theory which has resulted from me writing porn on my phone which im certain is old hat to everyone but is new to me it kinda goes like this basically, as a person or community[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
cannibalcaprine: sensory-seeking behavior (masochism)
yaoiboypussy: yaoiboypussy: Every call out post about a trans person apparently being a rape apologist and a sex freak is always about the most mildest of sexy roleplays. Like why are you writing a whole call out post over a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
felinedragon: honestly kinda fucking hilarious how many tumblr queers wax eloquent about the importance of leather in the queer community and the rich history of leather queers and kinky fuckery, and then like. literally 10 seconds later reblog a callout[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
ceasarslegion: ceasarslegion: Psst You. Yeah, you. Over here When someone says or means “i want to fuck another consenting adult of sound mind who acts like/roleplays as x” it does not mean “i want to fuck x” Yes, this includes[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
orcgirlcock: hatingongodot: hatingongodot: BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it’s a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like “PUT MY[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
transcowgirlslut: it’s kind of bullshit that people will react with horror to me discussing my fantasies/kinks until i clarify I’m the sub in them. like even my therapist was all like “ohhh it’s ok to want to hold power so[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
runs-red: CNC and rape fantasies, sadism and abusive fantasies are pretty common and are, you know, kinks. Honestly, don’t bother calling yourself pro-kink if you’re going to shame people for reading fiction on these topics.
c8h7n3o2: People on here will preach about being progressive and then do a 180 as soon as a consenting couple uses the word “daddy” in the bedroom.
transmutationisms: really fucking irritating how many people think theyve invented blistering new social commentary by being like “what if a kink… forms because of trauma and social violence” without ever asking that same question about the sexual desires and practices[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
catgirl-catboy: “Murder is okay to glorify because nobody is getting off on it.” You sweet summer child. Everything is somebodies kink, write that down. I’ve met many people that enjoy gore and murder in a sexual way (and most of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
runs-red: Being anti-ship or anti-fiction is just inherently and sometimes blatantly anti-kink. “Romanticising/sexualising abuse”, “using my trauma as a fetish tool”, and literally any variation of “you use trauma as a kink so you think it’s great” has been said[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
xenasaur-archive: xenasaur-archive: xenasaur-archive: kittenadventurous: xenasaur-archive: btw. being kink positive means ALL kinks even the ones you think are “immoral” or whatever the fuck. “but what about-” especially that one. no sex act between consenting adults is immoral actually. kill the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
clearancecreedwatersurvival: Okay I’m feeling kind of ranty about this still so I want to take this opportunity to talk about narrative therapy, kink, and fanfiction. Narrative therapy is a form of therapy that allows people to process trauma through the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sweatermuppet: happy father’s day to leather daddys
pomrania: bemusedlybespectacled: prosocialbehavior: headspace-hotel: no-terfs-no-swerfs-no-fascists: doublism: my instagram explore page loves showing me those like erotic dark romance novel tiktoks and i really have to wonder: why do all these straight women desperately want to fuck a mafia boss Okay,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
genderkoolaid: zerometis: genderkoolaid: also btw im sorry but we HAVE to acknowledge that marginalized people are gonna be into problematic kinks too. there are trans people who are into misgendering & detrans kink there are gay people into conversion/orientation play[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thefollow-spot: Kink at pride!
headspace-hotel: thesaltofcarthage: thisishowwedonut: shieldfoss: catboybrigade: shieldfoss: hobbygoblin: prokopetz: prokopetz: There’s discovering that you have a kink as in learning something new about yourself, and there’s discovering that you have a kink as in you always knew you were into it,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fierceawakening: doberbutts: armchair-factotum: topbottomswitchblade: it’s difficult to be a dom with anarchist leanings. my sub will be like “i have to tell you something… i broke a rule. i’ll accept whatever punishment you see fit.” and i’m like. rise up[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
stupidpuppybxy: listen, i know my blog has some really hard kinks but i need to make this abundantly clear: everything needs to be consensual. consent is an absolute MUST. it’s not kink without consent. consent and safe words are mandatory[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
im a poly trans lesbian with fucked up mental health why are u phrasing this as a hypothetical Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
buddhawithoutorgans: Another thing about the anti kink waves that keep happening is that their entire premise of shaming people out of deviant behaviour under threat of ostracism relies on a panopticon of community policing where the functions of the state[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…