also btw im sorry but we HAVE to acknowledge that marginalized people are gonna be into problematic kinks too. there are trans people who are into misgendering & detrans kink there are gay people into conversion/orientation play there are fat people into feederism there are people of color into raceplay there are disabled people into disabled fetishes there are women into misogyny fetishes! for a variety of reasons! and you have to not care. you have to learn that it does not fucking matter. ignore the little gremlin in your brain that tells you that arguing over the morality of what gets consenting adults off is important or worthwhile & that having a fetish = condoning or believing or acting out any of that kink utside a scene or that it makes your activism invalid & you are a Better Activist for not having that kink. that’s the devil talking. also no their partners are not inherently evil for indulging in their kinks either. you don’t have to enjoy these things or even want to see or hear about them & your boundaries should be respected, but once you start letting people kinks color your perception of them as a person you’ve already lost. Destroy That Gremlin
literally what the fuck is this lmao
woah what a shocker
notice how despite this post clearly being about marginalized people who themselves have these kinks, she still takes the position of “you are FORCING your partner to experience discrimination so YOU can get off”
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