People love to be like “I’m anti-harassment because I don’t believe in harassing people over fiction!” then readily harass people for other things and it’s just… no actually you aren’t anti-harassment, you just have different parameters as to who “deserves it” than antis. Anti-harassment means anti-harassment and if you aren’t ready to unlearn punitive “justice” and still think you can bring about healing through hatred you aren’t actually anti-harassment.