Proship Christmas Carol where an anti is visited by the spirits of fandom past, present and yet to come. Fandom Past: takes the anti back and shows them the result of the ffn purges, and livejournal strikethrough Fandom Present: takes[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Ship and let ship! 👉 Hate and harassment make fandom a toxic place for everyone. 👉 Hate and harassment decreases overall participation in fandom; it doesn’t just chase away people you don’t like. 👉 Hate and harassment discourages everyone from[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I have seen a lot of antis use their issues as an excuse to abuse and control others, unfortunately. That’s what it always comes down to with antishipping; the desire to control the thoughts and actions of the people around[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
✍️ Fiction does not equal morality. 🛑 Harassing others is never virtuous. 🏴☠️ Ship and let ship!
People who shit on others for liking something that they don’t like are assholes, plain and simple. “Cringe” culture is all about shitting on others and being mean to people that you feel some bizarre unjustifed superiority over. I am[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Okay um like so…. Your brilliant solution completely ignores that people make fan content that people who consider themselves antiproship find objectionable. And then if you make that content, antis fly out of the woodwork to call you a “nasty[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I very much understand a person not wanting to support speech that they feel is hate-speech (racist, transphobic, homophobic jokes), and it is true that stand up comedy/telling jokes is a little different than creating fiction. However, if you believe[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
They described themselves as an anti because language is not clear and distinct, and the antiship side has distorted the meaning of proship and antiship so heavily that it can feel meaningless. According to extremist antis, “proship” means to them[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
To the anti who sent us an ask and didn’t want us to publish it for fear of being attacked by other antis: Thank you for being so reasonable, and I hope you achieve the goal that you told me[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Happy holidays, anon! I’m so happy that you’re blocking people you don’t want to see the content of and curating your own experience online; a core proship value! I’m sorry to hear about your unfortunate streak of authoritarianism, and hope[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Bullying and harassing proshippers doesn’t keep anyone safe. You guys are just mean.
I wish we could all go back to saying “x is implied to be a y” or “the subtext is that x is a y” instead of “x is y-coded”. The “coded” language is all just button pushing meant to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Once again, antis can’t agree on what does and doesn’t count as proship! I had no idea there were rpf/minecraft antis!
You do not need to justify your ships to anyone. Enjoying something in fiction does not require you to grovel for forgiveness.
The world is kinder and gentler to idiots than you have been led to believe, anon. I hope one day you have the perspective to look back and feel bad for being stupid kid and attacking others this way. And[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Antis, why do you care so much what sexual thoughts other people are having? Please understand you cannot police other people’s sexual thoughts and feelings without handing ammunition to the authoritarians who want to police all sex. When you police[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
proshippers: “maybe instead of sending hate, we could all just be nice to each other and block people and content we don’t want to see.” antis: “OMG how dare you say my right to tell people who annoy me that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You are not required to look at things you know will upset you. ☑️ It’s always okay to block and filter things you don’t wanna see. ☑️ Proship does not mean you like every type of content. ☑️ It’s okay[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The problem is the majority of antis consider all fandom, regardless of source material, to be ONLY for kids. If you’re an adult they think you’re a weirdo who should get out of fandom. Any fandom. “Go do your taxes.”
imagine spamton and you slandering the proship/ ant anti/ comship tag because both of you know that proshippers suck and you want to slander them so badly Op, what do you think the word ‘slander’ means? Op, what do you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: blackheart-biohazards: This assertion that antis like to parrot that proshippers “whole lives revolve around” their ships is a fascinating strawman. I feel like antis can’t conceptualize that life occurs offline, and your posting habits aren’t your “whole life”. Maybe[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This assertion that antis like to parrot that proshippers “whole lives revolve around” their ships is a fascinating strawman. I feel like antis can’t conceptualize that life occurs offline, and your posting habits aren’t your “whole life”. Maybe it’s because[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, you mean well, you’re broadly correct: the following is meant to spread awareness, not to shame you for not knowing. IQ is an inherently eugenicist and ableist concept and metric that does not help us understand anything valuable about[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
They don’t know what words mean, and they don’t know their history. They exist in a time that has allowed them to feel safe enough in their queerness that they believe they are accepted by their own oppressors. They are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I think mostly antis hear their conservative, eugenicist parents use the term and then parrot it back without considering the full implications. Yes, they want us all dead. But they don’t understand that they, sweet baby queers that most of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dagdasgoddess: You are not an “evil” Or “despicable” person for not enjoying wholesome things, or wanting to write dark fiction. Whether that’s for coping reasons, or you just like to write it for the sake of writing.. It’s none of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
📢 Moral and immoral are not immutable qualities everyone agrees on. 📢 You are not obligated to listen to people who tell you that the fiction you enjoy carries moral weight. 📢 Trying to dictate what type of fiction is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yeah I saw this in the Moon Knight fandom. I have also seen antis say this to real-ass plurals like me, that we were in some kind is incestuous relationship for dating in-system. As if in-system relationships aren’t incredibly common
Right? Who would have thought that acting like outraged 12 year olds throwing a tantrum wouldn’t get them taken seriously? And i mean they do call us proshitters, so given that they’re anti shitting I guess they’re holding a lot[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yet another anti who actually says out loud that they want to normalize bullying and harassment. Stay classy.
When I write some fucked up fanfic: My answer when an anti sends me hate: My advice (replace movie with fanfic):
When people call a piece of fiction illegal, or immoral, what that usually means is that it disgusts them personally, or that it is generally in bad taste. ⚠️ Other people’s disgust is not your problem. ⚠️ You do not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gorgeousgreymatter-x: So as someone who consumes and writes fanfiction, I am on the fanfiction is a valid type of literature train choo choo but my god it is so painfully obvious some of you don’t read anything else. Some of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You cannot increase the agency of one group (children) by diminishing the agency of another group (adults). Censorship does not make children safer, because there is no safe authority to decide what is censored. Censorship takes away the tools of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Today is a good day to remember that fiction is not programming. You can create and enjoy dark, taboo, problematic art without it impacting your personal morals or judgement. Yes, even if someone accuses you of romanticizing or glamorizing said[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Do you realize that whatever we fantasize about matters to God? He is intimately aware and involved in our spiritual development. As Christians, it is critical that we censor our imaginations, because wrong thoughts can easily become wrong attitudes that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I totally get feeling embarrassed about it. A lot of our opinions about rpf formed when we were 16 in high school and one of the girls in our friend-circle wrote a lot of explicit smut about the band Good[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
antishipping: seeing the “obviously we don’t care more about fictional characters than real people” bs i’ve seen a few antis spew is just really dumb to me. like, you realize that by harassing a REAL person, damaging a REAL person’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Children who deliberately violate their own boundaries and then cry that someone should have stopped them from being able to do so don’t get any sympathy from me. It’s like, do you want agency, or not? Why do you want[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Antis can’t accept that once something is out in the world, you have no control over how others perceive it or interact with it. Honestly it’s not just antis who act that way though, sometimes.
A few days ago I saw a video on Tiktok of someone saying that Proshippers on Twitter are comparing antis to conservatives for simply being against pedophilia, incest, and abuse. I’m sorry but antis aren’t going around saying that Queer[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“if you are a proshipper I will actively hunt you for sport” What an extremely normal and not at all unhinged thing to say. (sarcasm)
No problem, pal. 😾🔪 here, it was my post specifically, so here’s the context. (I’ll try not to ramble). personal irl background: IRL in this lifetime, I/we were raised in a household where our father had significant paranoid delusions, primarily[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thanks for taking the time to share your story, anon. Honestly, the sad thing is stuff like this happens all the time. Glad you got out of the toxic anti soup.
antishipping: when did fandom change “don’t harass people” into “don’t harass good people”? like… you know being anti-harassment is about not harassing people, period? you can’t see a post talking about how it’s wrong to harass people for any reason,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🌟 Fiction isn’t brainwashing. 🌟 Enjoying dark, taboo or disturbing fiction doesn’t override your morals or willpower. 🌟 Fiction doesn’t turn people into criminals or abusers.
harassment is bad when you’re a borderline p3dophile you don’t deserve mercy or pity Child, you have to pick one. Also, not even ‘pedophiles’. Borderline pedophiles. Methinks you just have a lack of pity and mercy in your heart.
It’s absolutely spiteful and dismissive; and not far out of step with the other behavior we see out of antis. Basically, if an anti doesn’t like you, your trauma and your identity don’t matter to them, and are free game[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
They don’t want to take responsibility for their words and actions. Honestly, when you think about it, that’s kind of antis whole deal, denying that people are responsible for their actions. That’s why they blame fiction for programming people to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some things to remember: ✍️ Shipping something does not mean that you endorse it. ✍️ Whether fiction glamorizes/romanticizes a topic or not is in the interpertation of the reader. ✍️ Creating or consuming fiction of any type has no bearing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You can be disgusted by something without that thing being immoral or evil. You can be disgusted by something without attacking, insulting, or harassing the people who are doing the thing that disgusts you. Disgust does not determine morality. Attacking[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hi, friend. It sounds like you’re really struggling right now, and I’m sorry to hear that. I’m also really sorry to hear that you don’t have friends that you can trust to talk about this with. “Proship” can be a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Creators who make taboo and problematic works are amazing. If you make taboo or problematic art: 🫶 You deserve to have your art appreciated by those who want to see it. 🫶 You do not deserve to be harassed for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Dear antis: You can’t see into a writer’s mind, and you can’t know the intentions they had when writing something unless they state their intentions directly. When you read something and you feel like it is glamorizing, glorifying, or promoting[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🌺 Proshippers who create art are amazing! 🌺 Proshippers who write are amazing! 🌺 Proshippers who make edits, moodboards and graphics are amazing. 🌺 Proshippers who enjoy and share the creative works of others are amazing! 🌺 Proshippers are amazing!
Proship Misconceptions 🚫 Misconception: A “proship” is a ship that involves problematic content. 👍 Reality: Proship means supporting the rights of people to ship what they want. “Proship” is a label for the person doing the shipping, not for a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: Oh my god, we’re really doing this again? Are we? Are we really doing this again? Anon, I am tired. I am so fucking tired. I’m really sorry, whoever this is, I don’t even know you, and you may[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If i write something violent, and someone unrelated to me reads my fiction, and then goes and violently assaults someone, that’s not my fault or responsibility. If I write something sexual, and someone unrelated to me reads my fiction and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey look, combination terf and anti blocklist!
pyroangelic: marshemillow: blackheart-biohazards: I can say “hey maybe you shouldn’t accuse people who write fiction of promoting incest or pedophilia because making serious and harmful accusations equating fiction to real crime waters down the perceived severity of actual abuse” and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: blackheart-biohazards: I can say “hey maybe you shouldn’t accuse people who write fiction of promoting incest or pedophilia because making serious and harmful accusations equating fiction to real crime waters down the perceived severity of actual abuse” and antis[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Knowing that we were able to help somebody see this means a lot, anon. Thank you for reaching out to us. It helped a lot to read it today
What is triggering content? We talk a lot about how antis don’t seem to understand that the things that make them upset are comforting to some people, and the things that are comforting to them are upsetting and traumatic to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: “If proshippers don’t even like problematic content, then why would they defend it so much???” um, because it’s bad to limit freedom of expression? Haven’t you ever heard, “I disagree with what you say, but I will defend to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Good morning proshippers and everyone else who doesn’t harass people over fictional bullshit. Peace out and stay cool.✌️🤘
theparadiseislandsys: normalize treating antishippers the same way they treat us because they have no human decency so why should we? 🥴 Every other proshipper to you right now, op.
People need to understand competing access needs. Its perfectly normal for some people to want to avoid fictional material related to things that oppress or traumatize them, and perfectly normal for some traumatized or oppressed people to want to seek[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Tags are for organizational purposes. Tags are not communities. If people don’t tag their problematic content with the main fandom tags, then it not only becomes unsearchable, it also becomes unfilterable. What if I hate undertale, and I don’t want[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Antis will look for ANY reason why its “okay” to bully someone they have a problem with.
The problem is that antis don’t see harassing people as morally wrong. They see hurting proshippers as enacting righteous punishment upon them for the crime of having bad thoughts and creating art that inspires bad thoughts in others.
🚫 Harassing people for the fiction they create or enjoy is not moral or admirable behavior. ⚠️ No matter what your opinion on someone’s fiction is, bullying, threatening or wishing death on them is always worse than what they’re doing.
⚠️ Bullying people is always bad! ⚠️ Harassing people is always bad! ⚠️ Telling people you want them dead is always bad! If you support bullying, harassment or death threats, you are the bad guy!