cistematicchaos:

ovanilinavo:

birlinterrupted:

i hope there are more of these women so that queer women can sexualize my titties instead

from the persistent desire: a femme-butch reader

[ID: Two images, the first a cropped screenshot of a tiktok caption saying, “The amount of queer women sexualising boobs… 😃?” with the o’s in “boobs” censored with zeros.

The second image is a page from a book with text reading:

AH: Yes, really … Well, the first discussion I ever heard of lesbianism among feminists was: 

“We’ve been sex objects to men and where did it get us? And here when we’re just learning how to be friends with other women, you got to go and sexualize it.” That’s what they said! “Fuck you. Now I have to worry about you looking down my blouse.“ 

That’s exactly what they meant. It horrified me. “No no no,” I wanted to say, “That’s not me. I promise I’ll only look at the sky. Please let me come to a meeting. I’m really okay. I just go to the bars and fuck like a rabbit with women who want me. You know?”

Now from the onset, how come feminism was so invested in that? They would not examine sexual need from each other except as oppressor-oppressee. Whatever your experience was, you were always the victim. Even if you were the aggressor. So how do dykes fit into that? Dykes who wanted tits, you know? 

Now a lot of women have been sexually terrorized and this makes sense, their needing not to have to deal with explicit sexuality, but they made men out of every sexual dyke. “Oh my god, she wants me, too!" 

So it became this really repressive movement, where you didn’t talk dirty and you didn’t want dirty. It really became a bore.]