sl-ug: blackheart-biohazards: You’re talking about being attracted to anime characters, right, anon? Because that’s the only question on the subject that I’m equipped–or willing– to answer. Let me know with a follow up message and I’ll answer your question. I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
vaspider: libertineangel: conservativemalarkey: path-forbidden: ectorotica: the thing about gay bdsm dynamics is they will make explicit what is implicit in normative cisheterosexual dynamics and then those complicit in cisheterosexuality will act all scandalized about seeing themselves in the funhouse mirror[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
amysubmits: joeyridersgutter: Hey guys you know cnc isn’t just “rape roleplay” right? Giving your husband permission to initiate sex without asking is cnc. Asking your gf to wake you up with a bj is cnc. Agreeing to down a bunch[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
qweerhet: sonofmeatthawsmoth: The right has set a pretty neat trap in that any discussion or acknowledgement of children’s sexuality will have you potentially labeled a groomer or a pedophile, not just by the right, but a non-trivial amount of people[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
pro-fiction-jellicle: Hey. Hey, you. The people who have a strong preference for the explicit and smutty side of fandom. You’re super valid and are doing nothing wrong by having sexuality be your main focus. Sexuality being important to you doesn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
jeunefillevulgaire: Things that real life sex has taught me that isn’t in porn : Shaking during sex, no no, not her legs, him. Yeah. It happens to men too, from anticipation and excitement. I only had one partner who used[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I’m with you. Those attitudes are exhausting. Just let people do what they want in the bedroom and in fiction.
things-antis-say: “…it’s really important that people who have taboo thoughts are able to express them…” “…as a bona fide, card-carrying nerd, and pervert…” “Anything close to kink-shaming, no matter how taboo, I can’t abide…” — Dan Harmon [link to the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
roseofwisdom: im beginning to worry theres a certain contingent of medieval nuns masquerading as discourse queers on this fuckin site. otherwise how to explain an incredibly overterrified attitude towards sex and sexuality in the pride month discourse. (this isnt about[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
genderoutlaws: THIS WAS WAY BACK IN MY INBOX WHAT WAS THE CONTEXT EVEN… anyways yeah we do
garthgender: garthgender: Genuinely the current political climate is fucking abysmal people have gotten so weird and pearl-clutchy about sex that they get frightened when sexuality is celebrated at gay pride and somehow we’ve regressed past the “equating women to uteruses[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
vaspider: genderkoolaid: the most annoying thing abt anti-kink queer people is that when you point out that gayness has always been considered a kink by homophobes, they jump in with “umm but being gay isn’t a kink!! that’s homophobic!!!! saying[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
buddhawithoutorgans: Another thing about the anti kink waves that keep happening is that their entire premise of shaming people out of deviant behaviour under threat of ostracism relies on a panopticon of community policing where the functions of the state[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…