do you remember when Twitter was first released and everyone posted stuff like “just had a yummy sandwich” and “going to the park” and people made fun of that because they had no idea what that type of posting would be replaced with.
im beginning to worry theres a certain contingent of medieval nuns masquerading as discourse queers on this fuckin site. otherwise how to explain an incredibly overterrified attitude towards sex and sexuality in the pride month discourse.
(this isnt about sex-repulsed asexuals, btw, who are valid and cool. )
listening to these dried-up cryptoconservatives thinking up the latest trendy dogwhistle for “no freaky fags at pride, only gay married couples in button shirts” only fills me with the increased desire to be a big freaky fag in their fucking faces, whether they like it or not.
and lets be specific: im a trans girl and i have a powerful sexuality. i have sexual attraction and sexual desire, and it is linked inescapably with my transhood, my girlhood, my transgirlhood. i havent begun my medical transition, but i can still love my body and love feeling good. so should girls who dont want to medically transition, no less than girls who have done so! (likewise for transfems who dont consider themselves girls, likewise for n.b. and transmasc people all the same!)
nothing infuriates transphobes more than seeing us enjoying our lives and our bodies. that is why they like to either demonize or erase our sexuality from our stories. love passionately, fuck passionately, masturbate passionately, cum passionately. dont ever apologize for it.
