Sometimes I worry that I’m secretly an anti because reylo is one of my notps and I prefer to avoid it and I have the tag blocked but then I remember I’m friends with someone who does ship it and I don’t think it has any bearing on morality, it’s just a ship I hate because I think Kylo Ren is annoying.
Exactly, anon! It’s not about what pairings you don’t like, it’s about how you treat people.
We have despaircest blocked as system trigger, and yet we have some lovely fandom friends who ship it
And that’s fine!
Its my NOTP too. I wouldn’t worry about it too much, since shipping should be about personal preferences, not political statements.
You shouldn’t feel pressured to like something just because your friends and mutuals do.
Exactly! Treating shipping like it’s representative of irl stances is ridiculous.
We support all our friends (and everyone else’s) right to ship all our notps.
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