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Kids, and I say this with all love, you can have a lengthy DNI or you can get mad when strangers block you with no prior explanation, but you cannot do both and expect to be treated like a grownup. If you ask people within certain demographics not to interact, you can’t be mad when they take steps to ensure they won’t.
Strong boundaries are good, and vocalizing your boundaries is good. It’s just that a boundary line works both ways, and if you don’t want to talk to me on principle, sometimes in practice that means you don’t get to talk to me. It’s a difficult thing to accept that not everyone wants to interact with you either, but being able to shrug and move on is part of becoming an adult.
Or you can keep yelling anonymously into the void of my inbox, up to you. Therapeutic I suppose, even if it’s also weirdly obsessive.
Saw someone on twitter the other day say their therapist told them “sometimes the people you think are toxic aren’t toxic they just don’t like you and you’re desperate” and I think thats something ppl who view blocking as problematic should take time to absorb
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