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1900s queer community: We are defined by our love and joy. We will celebrate and persevere and be happy. In the future, we will have the respect we deserve, but for now, we will smile as an act of defiance.

2020s queer community: if you aren’t suffering 24/7 then you don’t get to be a part of the Real Queers club