thesecondwetnote:

Is Blackmadhi healthy?

It’s something I have been wondering for a while. Like, it’s hot, they look great, got parallels in their backstories. But like, are they good for each other?
I feel like the ship is a lot of angry kisses and ‘I hate you but still wanna fuck you’. And sure, I get it, that is hot, but that’s not healthy.
I don’t wanna start any shit, but I feel like more people should say: The ‘I love to hate you’ vibe isn’t a healthy one.

Maybe there is something there I am not seeing, but as far as I can tell they aren’t actually good for each other.

I don’t know. If you have a different perspective I would love to hear it.

Must a ship be good for one another to be sexy and exciting to ship? It may or may not be healthy, but it can make for a fun pairing in fic and art.

I don’t think it’s necessary for a ship to be ideal or desirable to have in real life for it to be fun in fandom, although you might disagree!