BlackHeart Biohazards

The “body age” argument that this person is making is scary.

You, and other people with petite, soft, or unlined bodies that some might consider “childlike” do not deserve to have your bodies stigmatized or be considered creepy for having sex.

Meanwhile, our body was extremely mature as a child, to the point that we were regularly mistaken for being 18 or 19 when we were 12 years old.

And it was not okay for us to be sexualized and preyed on when we were 12 just because our body looked “mature”.

The ideas that this post we’re discussing argue for are actively predatory toward children with more developed bodies, and are stigmatizing and marginalizing toward actual adults who are capable of consent.

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goatsorcery:

im so done with seeing articles about kids and screen time that doesnt mention parent behaviors even once. “kids are always on their phones” so are the parents! which the kids look to for how they should behave! ipad babies didn’t chose to only play on their ipads, thats what their parents gave them!

an anecdotal example: when i was a kid, all my parents would do in their minimal free time was watch tv and then they would be surprised when in my sister and i’s minimal free time we would also only watch tv/play video games. they scolded us for not reading books, but they never read books. they scolded us for not going outside but they never went outside.

“kids are always on their damn phones” my mom is in her 60s and opens up candy crush anytime she’s sitting — it isnt just the kids

scientistservant:

blackheart-biohazards:

“trauma doesn’t excuse weird behavior.”

Fancops are bullies. Fancops are like every other bully who calls someone weird as an insult.

“it’s bad to be weird, it’s good to be normal”– hey miss me with that ableist, transphobic, queerphobic fucking mindset.

Still had absolute fucking dumbasses calling me a pedophile when I’m attracted to old people so what does this person have to say about that