“People like me feel bad when you do X, so please don’t do X” is a sympathetic request particularly when X is some minor thing. I don’t want to refuse them.
“Don’t do anything that anyone dislikes” is between impossible and oppressive, since there are just too many types of people. Even if everyone just request small things, the sum of everything is too big. Merely keeping track of everything is difficult.
Unfortunately these two statements are actually the same.
