I hope in the next few years; the anti-community will be gone. I’ve read stories from former-antis sharing their awful experiences, discussing how they threatened, suicide baited, or doxxed people or have been victims. Former-antis also shared how their supposed “friends” turned on them, feeling isolated and ashamed, believing they did something wrong for thinking or behaving differently. Antis bully people for being different from them, believing they deserve to be attacked, whether they’re outsiders or each other, since they can’t control them. I think the anti-community will implode beneath the weight of its hate, toxicity, and abuse since people are already leaving, avoiding, or calling the community out on their harmful, hypocritical behavior.

by on January 7, 2023 at 1:44 pm
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proship-selfship:

We can only hope.

“like to charge, reblog to cast” as they say.

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I’m a proship selfshipper and I will never not be jealous of people who are openly proship on their blogs. I have so many anti followers and I’m so scared of harrassment for just being proship. Even online, I don’t feel like I can ever really be myself. I kinda look up to you because of that, is that weird?(Also, be sure to take care of yourself as well as this blog!)

by on January 7, 2023 at 1:43 pm
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proship-selfship:

I don’t think it’s weird. It took me a long time to stop giving a fuck what people think about me, but I’m glad that I reached that point. Hopefully someday you will, too. Block and blacklist to your heart’s content if that’s what gives you peace of mind.

And, don’t worry, I’m looking after myself. I’ve gotten back to doing my bullet journal and it feels good to be creative again!

The self shipping community has a large amount of toxic fancops; I can’t blame anyone for being intimidated and wanting to hide their views right now.

That is why a lot of us lately have been trying to post more and improve the spirit and kindness of the community with #proselfship and #proship selfship.

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by on January 7, 2023 at 1:40 pm
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yankarii:

Remember guys just because you dont feel comfortable with something doesn’t mean that the thing they ship or something is morally wrong.

If you feel uncomfortable with dark content then just block it and move on.

And remember that harassing people even if you think they deserve it, is still wrong

Just because you think what they like in fiction is bad and that they are a “horrible” person, it doesnt excuse you to hate on them and harrass them.

Some people need to learn how to treat others like human beings.

“They are proshippers so they deserve to be bullied” Is very immature. Not every proshipper is bad and not every anti is good, you guys act here like 12 year olds 💀💀💀💀

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tbh when i told my mom that people would be going after and harassing people for fictional characters/fictional relationships, she just seemed so disappointed. she’s pretty well adjusted i’d say, and a really sweet lady. i told her the kinds of things they believe— the thoughtcrime stuff, the “if you write x you believe x is okay”, the “you were abused so now you’re an abuser” mentality, and all, and she was just shocked people would go so far over a story. so yeah, told my mom i was a proshipper and she just said that antis need to learn to leave things alone that they don’t like, lmao. also explained the situation to my therapist and she seemed super disappointed too that people would believe things so blatantly against research on such an important mental health topic, but i guess no field is safe huh?;;fandom should be a place to have fun and safely explore things away from reality. and i hate having to second guess everything i say and do in fear it’ll tip people off to me. i’m… getting tired, lmao. if i get cancelled this year it ain’t like i’m drowning in followers anyway

by on January 7, 2023 at 1:31 pm
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proship-selfship:

w Anon’s mum.

I’ve heard stories of folks having to warn their employers about Antis giving them flack over fiction, and they have a similar reaction to your mother’s. Funny how the “normal” people don’t care as much as Antis think they do, huh.

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