the most annoying thing abt anti-kink queer people is that when you point out that gayness has always been considered a kink by homophobes, they jump in with “umm but being gay isn’t a kink!! that’s homophobic!!!! saying that gay people and kinky people are in the same fight means you think gay people are gross perverts!!!! homophobia!!!!!!!!!!!”
like congratulations! you are doing exactly what they want!!!! in your desperate search for social acceptability you have tried to place yourself on the same side as straight people (“people with normal, non-offensive sexualities” vs “people with dangerous, offensive, strange sexualities”) not understanding that they will never actually let you have the same social acceptance they do while ALSO helping them hurt the exact people they want to hurt who should be your closest allies!!! your hubristic desire for assimilation into the heterosexual american dream will most likely end with you thrown aside as a gross fag the first chance they get while in the mean time you are becoming an arm of the exact cisheteropatriarchy you claim to be against!!! aaaah!!!!!!!!!!!!
they will ALWAYS see us as gross perverts. they will see YOU as a gross pervert, a kinky freak, a sex criminal, even if all you ever do is politely hold hands with your partner and kiss them on the cheek. instead of trying to find a grosser pervert that you can help them condemn so they release you from gross perverthood, maybe try asking this question: what’s so wrong with gross perverts?
