redwingedwolves:
Ugh… Just found out one of my fave self shipping imagines blog is aggressively anti and now I’m just kinda down in the dumps about it… I’m starting to realize that it seems like 90% of the fucking community is any more and it literally hurts to see posts like the ones they make that I relate to on a real fundamental level just to see something like “proshitters touch this and die” on the bottom, just like ‘Wow… Okay, thanks. Didn’t wanna feel good about my F/Os loving me no matter what, anyway’. And this isn’t me saying that I need someone else to tell me that Keigo and Dabi love me to make it real. I know they do and honestly Dabi took one look at the post and said “well fuck them too”. lol My point is I just wanna be able to reblog nice imagines/reminders without having to worry about stupid fandom discourse…
And I thought about taking the post I saw and posting it myself for the proship community to have, but I feel like I would just be feeding into a bad name if I took someone else’s work and just stole it. I guess I could also just try and make my own based on theirs, but I’d still feel like I stole it in a way, even I did use my own words instead of theirs. I dunno. I’m comflicted, sad and overall just kinda done with all the aggressive hate from antis.
((The author of the post I seen also literally compared being a proshipper to supporting JKR and like, as a transman, kindly fuck you. But, go off, I guess.))
It’s always such a bummer to see so many antis in self ship spaces.
We have been trying to cultivate a more active proshipping self ship community and use the tags #proselfship and #proship selfship
