can I just say something? of course even as a proshipper,pro fiction,I have ships that still squick me, gay/lesbian x opposite gender but I’m an normal person who knows how to block tags on tumblr and ao3 and shit,you don’t see me throwing a hissy fit about notps because I’m a normal person. it’s literally just lines on a screen kissing. I don’t give a damn. you do you. I like fucked up shit too,so it would be silly for me to bully others over something that has no baring on my material reality. if someone is cruel enough to attempt that in real life,that’s their own stupid fault,not mine. it’s called being a responsible adult who minds my own damn business. can’t believe people have told me to kill myself and shit when I was a kid before over FICTION. literally chill. do they even know who they’re talking too? relax. breathe in. do something worthwhile with your life. look at a sunflower. pet some horses. live your life better. be free. stop worrying about fandom wank. it’s not that deep. that’s not up for debate, people are just making themselves miserable over the stupidest stuff ever. I don’t think they even hear themselves lol. sorry for going off but like. it needed to be said. hope you’re doing better than we are/i am(we use both interchangeably even though we don’t talk about our plurality much haha)
(we use I/we pretty interchangeably too. No worry)
There are lots of things that we find upsetting online too, and we similarly just block/avoid them.
The thing with antis is they want their environment to be perfect for them specifically. They want things they don’t like to not exist.
Antishipping is extremely egocentric.
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