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Yeah sorry a “”“minors”“” only proship server seems incredibly skeevy and unsafe to us.
Proship kids; I’m glad you’re here. You are valued.
Do NOT interact with anyone who wants to interact with you because you’re a minor.
You have no way to verify that the other people telling you they are minors are not predatory adults.
I am begging you to pretend to be an adult if you need to, it is SAFER.
Yes, if you pretend to be an adult, other adults may theoretically proposition you for ERP thinking you’re an adult. You can just say no.
If you pretend to be an adult, attempted groomers will not be approaching you to manipulate you because of your age.
If you say you are a minor, you are giving the people who want to harm you a “go ahead” flag.
You are telling your predators where their prey is.
I’m sorry. I know you want community. You deserve community,I don’t have a solution.
But a “minors only” server is a dangerous place because predatory adults will lie about their age to gain access to their prey.
A “minors only” server is not a safe space it is a chicken coop that lets in foxes.
ETA: Its definitely better to not give your age than to lie about it, but yeah.
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