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[IMAGE ID: a snippet of a donation post where the term for an internet pay site has been censored out to avoid being caught by people’s filters. end image id]
YOU SHOULD NOT DO THIS.
I don’t care how in need you may be, that is irrelevant.
–When you deliberately refuse to tag your posts looking for donations to get around people’s filters
–when you deliberately censor the words in your posts to get around people’s filters
You are acting in an inconsiderate, borderline abusive manner.
You are deliberately emotionally blackmailing and violating the boundaries of people who are trying to avoid donation posts for their own mental health.
Those of us with anxiety, high empathy, moral OCD, CPTSD, “people pleasing” personalities, and backgrounds of abuse can be seriously harmed and triggered (LEGITIMATELY triggered) by posts looking for donations.
Forcing your posts onto the dashboards of people who have tried to block material that can seriously emotionally fatigue and harm them is fucking asshole behavior.
When you do this you are deliberately emotionally blackmailing vulnerable people who have nothing to give and no way to help you.
You are triggering abuse victims and the mentally ill.
You are deliberately violating other people’s boundaries in the hope that you can guilt trip them into giving you money when you trigger them.
Please for the love of fuck, have some consideration for other people!
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