I love the sick and delicious ironic contrast of whumper also being the one taking care of whumpee.

Whumper brushing out the knots and mats in whumpee’s hair and stroking their fingers through it.

Whumper treating and stroking and kissing wounds that they themselves inflicted.

Whumper holding whumpee on their lap like a child or a lover, and whumpee is just too exhausted and broken to fight the gentle contact.