Depressed and lonely whumper who has no one they can trust or talk to in their life. who ends up chatting away to, and even emotionally unloading their feelings on whumpee.
Depressed and lonely whumper who slumps down to have a seat next to their bound up prisoner whumpee as if they were friends having a drink together.
Depressed and lonely whumper who is to proud or repressed or traumatized to show their emotions in front of their peers or other people who are important to them, so whumpee is the only one who sees their real emotions.
Imagine coming up behind your F/O and pulling them backwards into your arms. You tuck their head under your chin, or rest your cheek against the back of their neck and rock back and forth gently with them, as they reach up to embrace your arms while you hold them.
