Um, hi! I had a question about plurality. I’m not good at being concise so TL;DR our host feels half-dormant??? Advise???Our host is…it’s hard to explain. So, for an idea of how this works for us, when someone fronts they can usually imagine themself into the inner world, and feel around for other headmates. This isn’t perfect but it works. Importantly, anyone who’s close to the Front will be easier to feel for, and anyone who’s deeper in will need to be called on and broight forward. Usually, our host (because he’s ALWAYS close to the front) is pretty easy to find, rarely far from the “front-zone” at all unless he’s actively exploring around while fronted. It’s weird. Lately, though, he was feeling really out of it and struggling to stay grounded in reality (delusions and stuff on top of the dissociation). Now, two days later, we’ve had a new headmate pop in (a younger boy who may or may not be tied to our host), and our host is? Gone? Like we can find him but he looks…half-there, like a ghost. Like he’s between dimensions or something. Is this just one of the “less fun” parts of plurality nobody ever talks about (and will run it’s course) or should we like…do something?🧡🩶 (to find this later in case I miss it)

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Hi friends! Thanks for reaching out, and I’m sorry you’re in a stressful position right now. If what you’re looking for is assurance that this is not an uncommon plural experience, and that this has happened to other plurals, I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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