okay but do you ever think about the inherit twisted intimacy of torture?
two people spending hours together, lost in the same process. fingers on your skin. the only voice you hear for days on end. the only presence you know. the closeness of having your skin be torn apart under their fingers. having another understand perfectly just how much pain you’re in. having to rely on them to treat your wounds, being you water and food so you survive and heal. cry before them, break and have your every emotion on display. having them turn into your whole world.
do you get it?
and then – the way the torturer can use it as another tool.
torture that leans into intimacy. hands stroking your hair as your warm blood pours out of you. soft whispers urging you to stay awake when the pain is overwhelming. strong arms holding you as you cry, those same arms holding you down as you thrush from agony. suddenly gentle fingers pulling your skin back together because you need to heal before you can take more. having your begging be answered with words of comfort that don’t stop the torture. waking up to their gentle smile before the pain begins anew. hearing your name on their lips. taking all the comfort from someone who hurts you, because that’s the only comfort you’d ever get.
or – torture that is clinically, intentionally devoid of intimacy. no questions, no words spoken. the only touch you feel is that of the blade and the thick gloves. not being allowed to see their face. knowing no matter how much you beg not a single word of yours will be acknowledged. never being addressed until you forget that you’re still a person. being trapped in a hell with not an ounce of comfort. isolation while still seeing someone daily.
or – a torturer that combines the two. that goes from all the intimacy to none if you do something wrong or if their mood changes. they come in in gloves and you cry and beg to be acknowledged. constant anxiety from not knowing what kind of day it’d be. getting used to their hands closing your wounds before they’re gone. breaking down and trying to do your best to fix whatever mistake you’ve made to have it back. getting used to no skin contact until they take off the gloves. flinching away from touch as if it burns only to immediately lean in. twisted gratitude when they hug you. always fearing losing what little comfort they give you.
[ID: An edited Tom Gauld comic of two identical looking kingdoms opposed to each other. The left kingdom is “Morally Grey Male Characters” and the right kingdom is “Morally Grey Female Characters”. Their juxtapositions are: “His heart wrenching tragic past” vs “Her corny sob story”, “His deep brooding” vs “Her bothersome whining”, “His complex contrast of heroic and villain qualities” vs “Her incoherent characterization,” “His delightful snarky attitude” vs “Her insufferable smugness”, “His righteous vengeance on those who have wronged him” vs “Her overreaction and uncalled for cruelty”, and “His talents and badassery” vs “Her Mary Sue-ness”. /End ID]
did it hurt? did you feel scared? unsafe? were you embarrassed? humiliated? terrified? did you feel confused on why? does it keep you up at night? do you avoid being in a similar situation? did you cry? did you want to cry? who told you it wasn’t that bad?
