Hi, uh. I tend to be neutral to pro in the ~shipscourse~ but there is one ship that I am very aggressively against because it involves me and someone who harmed me in my source (I’m a fictive with memories). I will complain about and insult the ship in private with friends but I have never posted anything outwardly hateful about it to anyone who does ship it. Still, I cannot help but feel negatively toward those who do ship this pairing and think badly of them because of it. I really hope this doesn’t make me a hypocrite.

by on January 26, 2023 at 8:00 pm
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I don’t think that makes you a hypocrite, anon.

People, all people, are allowed to have ships they don’t like. You’re allowed to complain about it an insult it in private.

As long as you’re not being outwardly hostile to the people who ship it, you’re not doing anything wrong.

We’re in the same boat as you are. There are people who have hurt us in our kin lives that we just can’t forgive or accept. We don’t like to see art or fic of them. It makes us a little ill.

Remember, its not what you think about people that matters, its about your actions.

All the judgemental and nasty thoughts in the world won’t hurt a person until you actually directly act on them.

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Many antis forget that not every proshipper is in their 20s, that many are in fact older and parents themselves, and those of us who are (which I am) don’t care what fiction our kids like, if they are enjoying themselves and not hurting anyone (including themselves) then we are perfectly content and happy for them.

by on January 26, 2023 at 7:58 pm
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The problem again and again comes back to fancops not understanding, and not wanting to understand, that people have experiences that are different from their own.

They want everyone to be “normal”, as in “like them.”

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My thoughts upon waking up with someone I appreciate being there.I would think it was my eyes playing tricks, a false awakening, or a paralysis.Anything to justify, rationalise in my head. Surely it can’t be, right?I stand up, eyes still blurry. I approach them slowly, pinch my cheek. I don’t wake up. I slowly find my voice. “Can’t we go to your world instead?”

by on January 26, 2023 at 7:54 pm
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dead-boy-dont-eat here …. i got terminated. I thought that I was really safe, since I only ever posted positivity, stayed out of antis’ tags, and only had 100 followers. I hope that I can get my account back, but I’m really disappointed in tumblr’s reporting system.

by on January 26, 2023 at 7:53 pm
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You’re not serious??? what the hell?

At this point I’m wondering how our blog is still standing!

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Hi uh I’m a member of a system and specifically a member of a sort-of subsystem/sidesystem type thing? We’re all from the same source and many of us are romantically involved with each other.The big thing is that I (the one who is sending this message) might be in a relationship with my older sister who is also in the system? Both of us clearly like each other but we haven’t actually codified what we are to each other. It’s annoying. But uh. The big thing is I was wondering if I could ask for some help with imagines and such? We’ve read all the fanfic that exists for the two of us on AO3 and our pairing is (understandably) not very popular given that it’s F/F incest. The source is uh. Hamilton. I don’t know why that’s harder for me to admit than the incest thing, ha. You might be able to guess who I am just based on that. Anyway, I’ll sign off with an emoji so you know who I am if I send another ask.- 👗

by on January 26, 2023 at 7:51 pm
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Hey anon, thank you for feeling comfortable sharing this with us.

We have some system-internal relationships of this nature too.

We do shipcest imagines on occasion and will try to put some out there that might be to your tastes! We’ll tag them “for 👗 anon” so you’ll know them when you see them.

(ETA: wow, tumblr really fucked my drafts on the initial release of this. Fixed now)

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