for my followers and fellow bored peeps. Let’s get to know each other a lil. Just copy the text and highlight the answer.
Hot or cold showers // texting or calling // earbuds or headphones // paperback or hard cover // matte or gel // 12 hour clock or 24 hour clock //blue or green //sunsets or sunrise //tulips or orchids // candle light or moonlight // sci-fi or horror // pen or pencil // pandas or koalas // gold or silver // sneakers or boots // denim jacket or leather jacket // pink or purple // chocolate or sour sweets // pastel colours or neutral earth tones // lemonade or fruit juice // past or future // coffee or tea // being soft or mysterious // fairies or nymphs
Looking forward to see your answers <3
Hot or cold showers // texting or calling // earbuds or headphones // paperback or hard cover // matte or gel // 12 hour clock or 24 hour clock //blue or green //sunsets or sunrise //tulips or orchids // candle light or moonlight // sci-fi or horror // pen or pencil // pandas or koalas // gold or silver // sneakers or boots // denim jacket or leather jacket // pink or purple // chocolate or sour sweets // pastel colours or neutral earth tones // lemonade or fruit juice // past or future // coffee or tea // being soft or mysterious // fairies or nymphs
Hot or cold showers // texting or calling // earbuds or headphones // paperback or hard cover // matte or gel // 12 hour clock or 24 hour clock //blue or green //sunsets or sunrise //tulips or orchids // candle light or moonlight // sci-fi or horror // pen or pencil // pandas or koalas // gold or silver // sneakers or boots // denim jacket or leather jacket // pink or purple // chocolate or sour sweets // pastel colours or neutral earth tones // lemonade or fruit juice // past or future // coffee or tea // being soft or mysterious // fairies or nymphs
I hate how the “purity culture” tag is polluted with proshippers complaining about people not liking their stories filled with incest and rape.
Purity culture isn’t just “I’m disgusted by NSFW content”. Purity culture goes far back, far before fandoms let alone shipping discourse was a thing. It’s filled with slut-shaming, gender essentialism, rape apologism and absistance-only culture that still affects people, especially women, today.
Stop using it as a fandom term without knowing the context around it.
“Purity culture” is exactly being disgusted by NSFW content.
Why do you think shaming people for the fiction that they like isn’t a significant part of slut shaming, victim-blaming, abstinence only culture?
“look at them, i would die for them. i would kill for them. either way, what bliss.“ with nothing but stars in their eyes, adoration in their hearts, and mind numb with you.
If you want to, you can always say you’re “anti harassment” or “ship and let ship” and then only the hardcore harassers will come after you. But I don’t blame you for just not saying anything at all.
I understand how difficult it can be to avoid going into tags and looking at content even when you know it upsets you; self care is a process and something to work towards, and not something everyone can achieve and that’s okay. I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself in the best way that you can.
I’m so glad you enjoy our blog, and I am always happy to answer asks! (Villain f/os are the best! 😉 )
