It’s definitely not too much to ask, anon.
It sucks when people treat sexual practices that they aren’t personally into as being objectively disgusting.
People need to realize that no everyone shares their views, and just because you aren’t into something you don’t need to broadcast your disgust. It just makes people who are into those things feel rejected and othered.
What counts as a F/O is different for everybody.
At it’s very most basic, an F/O can be any character that you have a crush on, or feels important or close to you.
Many people call a character that’s extra special and important to them a ‘comfort character’. But if you feel like you love them, or have a crush on them, or you want to ship them with your OC or anything else, you can consider them an F/O.
With f/os there’s not any hard and fast rules.
Wven when it’s hard to remember your own worth and value, or when it’s hard to remember what you’re living for, your F/O still loves and believes in you. They want you to keep going.
Emotionally guarded f/o’s allowing themselves to be vulerable in front of you / your oc my beloved ♡
Me: I’m not obsessed with my F/O. I love them a perfectly healthy amount.
Also me: (buys and plays an entire video game just to experience my F/Os three second cameo appearance)