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Saw a fan of a multiplayer shooter game call the canon relationship between a canonically pansexual character from the game and his CANON NONBINARY love interest “literally homophobic” like..???? Do… do they know the definition homophobia…? Theres also several other gay characters and another trans girl in this game too like- huh??????

by on April 15, 2023 at 12:24 am
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“homophobia” is when someone writes a pairing they don’t like.

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Seeing the DBZ post gave me a flashback to when an anti harassed me for a headcanon. What was the headcanon? Aroace Goku. What reason did they have to harass me besides being an exclusionist? They self-shipped with Goku, therefore I offended them. I’m not joking about that last part, a personal headcanon that didn’t get in the way of their self-shipping, offended them. They felt justified to harass me and belittle my identity over a headcanon that had nothing to do with them.

by on April 14, 2023 at 11:24 pm
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Another case of fancops co-opting progressive language to use as a hammer against anyone who does things they don’t like. context link

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I’m having a serious case of the vapors right now about an instructional manual about how to use toxic relationships to add drama to a story but “not in a proship way. ” its sooo good. (by which I mean batshit.) making a relationship toxic in your story is not proshipping, it’s in-depth storytelling. -true obviously, especially because proshipping isn’t a word.  don’t actively ship it, don’t think it’s okay, just use that relationship to add to your story -because the reader will be a mind reader and understand the pure intent of the writer they’re your characters and you can do what you want with them, as long as you agree that what happened to them is wrong and don’t glorify it then dude you’re good -actions don’t matter, only being a good person in my original characters’ story, there are some extremely toxic relationships, not just romantic but platonic as well and that’s okay to put in my story because I don’t say “aww they’re so cute together,” I say “I want to give (victim) all the hugs and happiness and kick (abuser) in the fucking face” -in this essay I will explain why my problematic fiction is not actually problematic because I personally am not a problem  I don’t glorify those relationships, I use them to add depth to characters and build conflicts – they’re part of the story, and just because there’s an unhealthy relationship does not make your book a fetishization of abuse. there’s a very big difference between the two. -clearly (deep sarcasm) “To all of the baby writers – if you want a toxic relationship as a part of your story, as a conflict in your plot, just remember that difference.”  -following these instructions, I accidentally microwaved my phone “so, proship dni, obviously” -snrk “Long story short, write what you want.” -wait, is this an anti blog or a proship blog?  The writer of Silence of the Lambs doesn’t support c4nnibalism, the writer of Chains doesn’t support sl4very/r4cism, the writer of Lolita doesn’t support p3doph1lia, the writer of Boy in the Striped Pajamas isn’t a n4zi, the writer of Holes doesn’t support child l4bor, and I (the writer of my book) don’t support manipulation. Just because you put abuse in your book doesn’t mean you support abuse. Just please don’t promote your conflicts as a “good thing” and you should be fine.“ love y’all, stay safe <3 -directions unclear, ate my phone

by on April 14, 2023 at 11:24 pm
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Wow this is…. wow. 🙄

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I have a tagging question, are you supposed to re-tag stuff when reblogging? Bc like, I don’t want to spam tags with reblogs/etc, but what if someone’s got it blocked?-

by on April 14, 2023 at 11:24 pm
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I am told that if the original poster has tagged something on a post, that even if you reblog it without tagging it again, someone who has it filtered will still get the post filtered even if it’s your untagged[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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I literally just had a conversation with someone about being unable to control how people take things you create. I was worried I’d been hurtful without meaning to. She told me that she could see what I meant, how I was worried it would be taken, and how she took it, all at once, and that all three were different. And that that is the nature of consuming media. It helped and its really nice to see someone else saying essentially the same thing. Thank you.

by on April 14, 2023 at 10:24 pm
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I’m really glad we could reassure you, anon. It’s absolutely true. Once you’ve shared your creations, you can’t control how people react, including what fandom stuff they create. context link

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sorry for charging right back in “and another thing!” style but uh. honestly i miss when character ages were interesting little factoids and not a determination of what’s “allowed” to exist concerning them. and i hate how as a result character ages are getting shoehorned in where they don’t belong. like, even as a little kid, i have never once thought of my pokemon player character as anything but my own age. i started playing well before i was ten, and i just pretended i was given special permission or whatever. and i’ve always done that. and it snaps me out of the narrative so fast when the games have an obligatory moment where an npc drills it into your head that you’re eleven or ten or whatever. the only times i don’t think of the character as my own age is when the player character turns more into an oc than a self-insert, in which case they receive a set age, usually over 18 for my own personal comfort. i have issues about being mistaken for a child irl, so perhaps i’m just oversensitive about it. but we always have seen trainers of all types, of all appearances, of all walks of life. and i really wish they’d drop the “you ARE eleven because i said so” stuff. i’m an adult and so are my friends and if i want to kiss the enemy leader i am allowed. let me have this game freak. :c (this argument isn’t all about self-ship or shipping, but i have seen too much stupid shipping discourse in pokemon for it to have nothing to do with it lmao) like, if you want to think of them as ten because tradition, or as a kid because you’re a kid or on a nostalgia trip, sure! that’s fine! whatever reason you have is fine! but i’m just. so tired, man. i’m fuckin tired!

by on April 14, 2023 at 10:24 pm
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Thanks for sharing your perspective, anon. I don’t think you’re oversensitive at all. We were regularly mistaken for an adult when we were a child and that was upsetting in other ways. context link

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I’ve always been so confused by people being squicked out about someone calling an underaged character hot when the character isn’t drawn in a way that make them look like a child. Like I think Yusuke Urameshi from Yu Yu Hakusho is crazy hot and regularly forget that he’s canonly 14 because 14 year olds don’t have fucking abs like that.

by on April 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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People have a right to be squicked out by anything, but I think there is often a performative element to announcing that you find it gross when other people express attraction to drawings of people with obviously adult bodies.

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I saw an anti in the CLAMP fandom and I’m just… Ah yes, CLAMP, the mangaka group known for such works as Card Captor Sakura, which has a relationship between a teacher and elementary school student, plus a healthy dose of cousins crushing on each other. Or Tokyo Babylon, which heavily focuses on another age gap relationship but this time with a lot more violence and a very strongly implied instance of mother/son incest. Or Clover where a character claims to sleep with the severed arm of the man he’s obsessed with and is probably stalking. Like I could go on and on, CLAMP loves their problematic content, it’s like their staple, so why would an anti want anything to do with this fandom at all? Yeah of course the ships are problematic, what did they expect?

by on April 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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Once again a clear case of fancops believing that they can consume problematic content in a “pure” and “critical” way, and that everyone else who likes that content is a “degenerate” “getting off to it”.

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Please only post of on anon. Toyhouse is almost certainly run by antis. At the very least the majority of the users are antis. The site as a whole is super cliquey and people will block you for having ‘low quality art’ or art style and designs that the popular members don’t like. There’s a toyhouse drama blog on here that posted about how adults who have ‘bad art’ or cute art styles shouldn’t part take in NSFW art games because “it feels like a kid is drawing for me.” People who have NSFW content at all are more likely to get blocked and outlasted. But overall the site is so petty and the user base is so unfriendly to artists who they don’t think are talented enough. The anti thing is just one more reason. I left the site because of the cliques.

by on April 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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This absolutely lines up with our experience of toyhouse as well unfortunately.

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answeringmysister: weareunderthesameskies:apricops:the tendency for racists and white supremacists…

by on April 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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answeringmysister: weareunderthesameskies: apricops: the tendency for racists and white supremacists to go gaga over their idea of ancient Rome is so darkly hilarious because of how entirely wrong it is. It’s not a twisting of some kernels of truth, it’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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Hi, I don’t know if you’re part of the creepypasta fandom, but I have a dilemma. I’m trying to enter into the fandom and learn more about it, but it’s crawling with anti’s. I’m so intimidated, and I really want to find some blogs to follow, but I can’t tell if anyone is an anti, cause so many of the blogs don’t say. I just want some good jeff the killer content, but most that i can find on here is done by anti’s. Do you have any advice for joining this community, if you are a member?

by on April 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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The creepypasta fandom is sadly absolutely crawling with antis! We definitely have some creepypasta fan followers though, so hopefully they’ll see this post! I (🔍⚔) do creepypasta content on this blog occasionally too!

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“this kind of stuff is used to groom minors therefore it’s bad” part of my stranger-danger lessons as a kid was learning that they would use puppies to lure you in. “do you want to come see my puppies?” and then they grab you and drive off we should ban puppies now i guess since they can be used by child predators

by on April 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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exactly, anon. When fancops blame child abuse on the type of grooming material used I just see the same argument as “she was sexually assaulted because of what she was wearing.” context link

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“These xyz Emoji combos are proship” reminds me of the qanon conspiracy theory where someone legit thought CP/🧀🍕was an acronym for csam. It happened in 2016 and 2019 and I don’t think it was really left behind because I’ve seen antis spread the same (debunked) myth about us

by on April 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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Unfortunately “cheese pizza” actually HAS been used in 4chan and imageboard circles to refer to “child porn” since the late 2000s at least… context link

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AS SOMEONE WHO WAS EXPLOITED AS A CHILD FOR LITERAL YEARS AND HAS CSEM OF THEMSELF PROBABLY STILL ON SOME DUDE’S HARD DRIVE, I AM BEGGING ANTIS TO STOP SAYING CP! IT IS EITHER CHILD SEXUAL EXPLOITATION MATERIAL OF A REAL, ACTUAL MINOR… OR IT’S L0L1SH0 DRAWINGS OF A FAKE CHARACTER CHILD. THESE THINGS ARE NOT THE SAME!? – A VICTIM WHO COPES WITH SH0T4 CONTENT AND IS SUFFICIENTLY TIRED. ALSO WHAT THE HELL DO THEY /MEAN/ CP IS EASY TO MAKE!? WHAT!? ARE THEY MAKING IT!?!?!!?!?!?!?

by on April 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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I am likewise begging fancops to stop trivializing child sexual abuse material by conflating drawings with criminal photographs of child abuse as it occurs.

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by on April 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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How could anyone especially some who speaks like they are an authority actually write it’s “incredibly easy to make CP” without going “uh wait a minute that’s fucked up I should rethink this” I wish I knew!!

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/genq how do I explain the difference between “fictional stories about children in explicit situations don’t groom children, groomers groom children” and “guns don’t kill children, people kill children”? I’m fairly confident there’s a difference but I’m not entirely sure exactly how

by on April 14, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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Simple. One is fiction, and one is reality. Guns are physical objects with which one’s killing prowess may be amplified manifold by it’s use, allowing a single human to potentially end multiple lives at the single pull of a trigger.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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meredith-time:hms-no-fun: if a trans woman complains about the ongoing campaign of trans genocide in…

by on April 14, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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meredith-time: hms-no-fun: if a trans woman complains about the ongoing campaign of trans genocide in the united states and the uk and your response is “well it’s not TECHNICALLY genocide yet so you really shouldn’t use that word because it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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Had to unfollow someone bc they said “cp fanfics groom minors” and i did not have the spoons to tell them that it’s not the medium that does that to people, it’s how it’s used. Media don’t do that, Intentions do. ALSO FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, CALL IT CSEM YOU ABSOLUT SNICKERDOODLES ARGH ;—-;

by on April 14, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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I rarely have the spoons for that conversation either, anon, I don’t blame you. The grooming material is irrelevant. The grooming material is not the source of the child abuse. Puppies and candy are used for grooming.

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I get this really happy feeling when people appreciate my posts. Not even in a “My stuff is good!” way, more of a “This brought someone joy!” way. Posting my imagines and watching people gush about their F/Os in the notes is ♡♡♡♡ It really encourages me to make more, tbh. And I base then on my own F/Os so it’s doubly fun! 🩷✉️

by on April 14, 2023 at 6:24 pm
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Honestly same! It’s such a nice feeling to share and know it’s bringing someone joy!

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some dynamics for you my liege: hopeless devotion poisoning you into madness when that person is gone, and the obsessive need to recreate them seeping into others who will inevitably miss you and gain that same obsession, like a slow rot spreading through your little family.

by on April 14, 2023 at 6:24 pm
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Emmet Benton from Jem and the Holograms, when he kicks off the series by dying in the basement from overwork while trying to re-create his dead wife as an AI.

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I was talking to a person this morning who was saying “You don’t have to justify what you like in fandom EXCEPT proship go die in a fire” I decided to engage and ask them which definition of proship they held They confirmed it was “incest and minor x adult ships” I then asked why that was the line of creation in fiction. They didn’t give me an answer to that, deleted all the messages and blocked me shortly after I think one of two things probably happened, they either realised that they didn’t have an answer and wondered why, and decided properly think about the positions they hold. Or they thought it was SO obvious as to why making certain art is bad that they shouldn’t have a reason for it. And I hope it’s the former tbh… It’s a shame how many people completely shut down when they are slightly questioned over the things they think as if there way is always the right way

by on April 14, 2023 at 6:24 pm
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I hope every day that fancops will see or hear something that makes them reflect on the inconsistency of their ideology.

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honestly we were in a more sex positive space of antishippers but also we apparently followed some neutralships without realizing who we were inside? so i guess that shaped our experience. I’m not really surprised that a lot of antishippers are anti-sex and anti-kink though. they’ll basically get mad at you for anything at this point. they got mad at us (obey me introjects) for existing – belphie

by on April 14, 2023 at 6:24 pm
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I’m glad you didn’t have to experience too much sex negativity from the antis that you knew, but in my experience the sex negativity is extremely widespread in the (vocal and aggressive part of the) anti community. context link

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Honestly if I got a kill yourself message I’d respond likd: “Thats pretty gay, you want me to end myself? So you can watch over my dead body and mourn? Point and laugh? Are you gonna teabag over it? You’re thinking about me so much that you just don’t want anyone else to experience my continued presence do you? Are you so selfish as that you want to experience my last moments ending myself for your words? That’s not hetero bro” (impulsive thought I got after reading the generic kys anon ask you got)

by on April 14, 2023 at 5:24 pm
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Honestly the only reason some of us here don’t respond like that is because we don’t want to bother addressing the ridiculousness of the complaint when the suibaiter inevitably tries to accuse us of sexual harassment for responding to them.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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by on April 14, 2023 at 5:24 pm
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regnard13: “Soul of the righteous in Hell” Finally finished this piece for a wonderful fic “The Smell of Bone and Things Forgotten” by @v0id–trash It was a pleasure to draw it, since I adore Baroque and Renaissance artworks.

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(About this post: https://ift.tt/uBEZhVq) I KNOW WHAT CHARACTER THEYRE TALKING ABOUT Its a character from an almost 10 year old pokemon game. Shes part of the evil team and literally almost destroys the world. Like shes old enough to be shipped with people. Shes obviously not a child but i guess could be interpreted as a teen if u squinted. Im currently hyperfixating on that game so this is just funny to me tbh

by on April 14, 2023 at 4:24 pm
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Thanks for the insight, anon! People who obsess over the age related minutia of characters for shipping purposes confuse me, especially when those characters are villains and not typically concerned with morality. context link

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There is an new thriller manga called Step-dad Seduction. It’s about a guy who got married to someone with an daughter, this daughter gets too attached and basically goes yandere. He doesn’t feel the same, and it is spelled out that what she is doing is wrong and that she isn’t a good person. Another character at one point basically says “if I had a stepdaughter like that I wouldn’t hold back” and the dad puts a stop to it immediately, and calls the other character gross. Every advance she does the dad stops it immediately and thinks she is creepy. 🐜s saw the announcement(?) Post of it, and all their replies are “we should get rid of japan”/“of course Japan makes that 🤢” or acting like they were wronged and dying. Even when the genre isn’t romance and when the bad stuff is spelled out as bad, their not happy. So no point in trying to make them happy, but hey because of them commenting the post got more attention (thanks to the algorithm) so I found a new pretty good book imo.

by on April 14, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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The xenophobia and racism out of the fancop community is as awful and widespread as the ableism.

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If you guys can’t get away from your sources, does that mean your picky with your fanfic/fanart in a way that makes you wanna find “fluffy” fics, or are you just really picky in a way that makes you wanna find stuff that’s really close to your canon? 🩷✉️

by on April 14, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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We’re much more picky with fanfiction in general than we are with fanart. With fanart, a lot of the time we’ll enjoy it even if it’s just kind of “good vibes” or gives us a feel, even if it doesn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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When I got into a relationship I thought there would be no need for shipping since I could play out anything I wanted Turns out bowuigi proved me wrong cause my partner can’t be a giant lizard sadly

by on April 14, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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There really is a meaningful difference between the joy of shipping something in fiction and the joy of an IRL relationship. Just like a sexual partner can’t be replaced with a sex toy, and a sex toy can’t be replaced[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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by on April 14, 2023 at 12:24 pm
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xxkittenpawzxx: how on the entirety of ao3 is there no spikexreader fics grrr From Buffy, right? The bulk of fandom for Buffy predates the rise of xreader fics, so that’s probably the reason.

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