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by on February 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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imagine assessing morality by asking “does not doing action this harm me?” instead of asking “does doing this action harm someone else?” And I thought *I* was an evil person. Fucking hell. No wonder some people are so warped. –đŸŒș😈

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I think immoral and bad lines can be very blurry and I think it’s easier to think about the level of harm each action causes It will not harm you to not play the jk Rowling game, you can find another game But it will harm you to not eat (even though nestle just chocolate from what I’m aware) entertainment and food are on different levels

by on February 14, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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You’re assessing harm backwards, anon. When we assess the harm inherent to an action in terms of morality, we assess the level of harm done to OTHERS, not to ourselves. The level of harm done to others when you buy[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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by on February 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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shouta-edits: “Can I request a stimboard for Barok van Zieks from The Great Ace Attorney? I would like it to have metallic/glittery calligraphy, wine and wax seals?” – anon requested SOURCES: X X X X X X X X X

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by on February 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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You know, here’s a funny thing I don’t know how many people will agree with. Bad and immoral are not synonyms. You can do immoral things that aren’t bad, and you can do bad things that aren’t immoral. –đŸŒș😈

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You can’t just say “It’s always bad to buy a product” without giving an alternative. The problem with massive brands like Kellogg’s and NestlĂ© is that they’re everywhere, and they’re cheap. Poor people can’t afford better alternatives, in many cases. No ethical consumption under capitalism. That’s just a fact. We make due where we can, and we do our best. Yes, NestlĂ© sucks, and I’d love to be able to get away from them, but they’re everywhere. It must be nice to be able to afford the choice.

by on February 14, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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You’re mistaken. I don’t avoid Nestle. I can’t afford to. I just accept that it’s a moral compromise. As you said there’s no ethical consumption under capitalism. I simply accept that we are all ethically compromised. I don’t believe that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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by on February 14, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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swallowtail-ageha: Antis that call proshippers proshitters are hilarious because that’s like. Middle school level insult and actually think that proshippers are offended by it fjdjcjshfjajd

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I don’t think it’s really fair to make the Rowling-Nestle comparison, because giant corporations like Nestle often can’t be avoided—people don’t know that [insert various products] are Nestle products, because it’s not immediately clear. It’s very easy to know what is and is not Harry Potter.

by on February 14, 2023 at 5:24 pm
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No. Something being difficult for you to do doesn’t make it any less immoral, or any more moral. Cheating on your spouse is immoral. Does it make it less immoral if it’s difficult for you to stop yourself from cheating[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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I have a nut allergy and it determines a lot of my behaviour. If I eat something with peanuts in, I could potentially die in 5 minutes. Before I consume something, I have to read the labels, I can’t trust people’s words on things being ok, I am used to being left out of meals. It doesn’t bother me. I am responsible for my own health, I know other people enjoy nutty foods even though they smell like poison. People have to give me the opportunity to protect myself, but then the ball is in my court. I can’t go around and harass people for eating peanuts, it’s not fair. I like thinking of my emotional triggers the same way, sites like “does the dog die” works exactly the same. You aren’t sure a piece of work will be safe for you, it’s on you to not consume it . I hope this make sense I just think triggers and allergies should be treated the same way

by on February 14, 2023 at 12:24 am
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The allergy analogy is always a great way to explain this sort of thing! Well said.

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Random ask but I was just remembering something infuriating that I saw on Twitter the other day, feel free to ignore. Antis have such fucked up priorities that they’ll bring up the fact that someone is a proshipper BEFORE they speak about someone being a nazi/zoophile/“map” (pedophile) or any other fucked up thing. And I don’t mean it in a “This gets gradually worse” way, no no no! I’ve seen people calling out proshippers and then adding another tweet to their thread being like “Oh yeah they’re also a nazi/zoophile/”map” (pedophile) btw” I’m so fucking tired, I’m not a bad person for enjoying fictional topics, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT HELPS ME TO COPE WITH ACTUAL FUCKED UP SHIT I’VE BEEN THROUGH!! Antis are exhausting.

by on February 13, 2023 at 11:24 pm
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It’s because fandom, fanfiction and fictional characters are the most important thing to them. Real people are an afterthought.

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I’m afraid this might be a problematic type of shipping, maybe even for some proshippers, and it’s definitely fuel for antis to use against us, so if you want to ignore this ask, that’s ok. First of all, something everybody agrees is ok is when we write/headcanon straight characters as queer. I do that myself often, main example being Steve x Bucky Barnes, IMO much better chemistry than Steve x Peggy. But what about the other way around? There’s this gay male character that I believe has incredible chemistry with a female character (I actually headcanon her as his “only exception” and he sees himself as a gay man who happened to be in a straight relationship), but we’re often told it would be homophobic to ship something like that. Yes, most homophobes would indeed do that, but I can guarantee that if I count the number of straight characters I ship with same-sex characters it would vastly outnumber the very small number of gay characters I ship with opposite-sex characters). Is there any proship statement that says something like “shipping canon straight characters with same-sex partners is just as valid as shipping canon gay characters with opposite-sex partners as long as you’re not a homophobic jerk IRL?”

by on February 13, 2023 at 10:24 pm
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Anon, I’m going to tell you right now. Just like you said “Is there any proship statement that says something like “shipping canon straight characters with same-sex partners is just as valid as shipping canon gay characters with opposite-sex partners[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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i recently stopped hanging out with my anti ‘friends’ because my ex best friend started /dating/ someone they spent seven months publicly calling a pedophile and had previously insisted the person sexually assaulted their wife, now they act like none of that ever happened and deleted every mention of it off all their social media and it was the biggest and most shocking eye opener of my life. i just wanted to put that out there how scary these circles can be. to anyone whos also recently left or is consider leaving anti circles; i want to assure that the proship community is far less volatile and much more kind <3 and i also want to thank you for being a kind person!!!

by on February 13, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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That’s wild, anon. They started dating someone they spent seven months calling a pedophile. And fancops like to pretend all thier nonsense isn’t just petty ingroup/outgroup bullying!

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do you have any advice for identifying if a character is just one you really identify with or a kintype?

by on February 13, 2023 at 9:24 pm
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Are you able to separate your identity from the identity of the character? Does it feel like you; like someone you’ve been? When you talk about the character does it feel right to say “I did this” instead of “character[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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by on February 13, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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We know people are curious about the proship/self ship forum, so here’s an update. This is the webhost we’ll be purchasing hosting from to begin with. Thanks to the tumblr friend who initially let us know about this host’s existence!

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I’ve noticed something very weird about mlm ships with a high number of antis. And it’s that they act the most like the fujoshi stereotypes that they claim fujoshi in general to be. Klance antis: Went as far as to nearly ruin Voltron if the studio didn’t make the ship canon. Have shipped irl people(these people being little boys no older than five)simply because they looked like the characters Keith and Lance. And forced kids to watch the show and make sexual inappropriate comments about it. And these are the people who call fujoshi predatory for “fetishizing real life gay men.” Zukka antis: Have written fanfic where they make Katara a homophobe and/or ship kataang just so she can be “out of the way” of their ship. Seriously, homophobe Katara is a popular fanon amongst these assholes that it’s insufferable. And have harassed those who ship Zuko with women(especially Katara)with statements like “Why ship zutara when zukka is right there?!” Or “If you ship Zuko with women, you hate gay people.” And even don’t right racist comments such as calling zutara shippers, who are made up by mostly woc, animals. And the irony to the racism, they claim that zutara is racist because Katara is indigenous while Zuko isn’t
then wtf does that make Sokka then?! And these are the people who claim fujoshi are racist for “fetishizing Asian men.” Kiribaku antis: Love to shove it in your face about it in a similar manner as zukka antis do. Only difference is that they say that if you ship anyone with Bakugo other than Kirishima, you’re an abuse apologist. Because Bakugo is an abuser
except for one person?? Have made some of the kinkiest, downright raunchy content of this ship. Yet will call you a pedo if it’s of any other characters so hypocrisy. And these are the same people who claim fujoshi are sexual deviants who “romanticize abuse.” And of course, they all harass people and sui bait others simply for not shipping their ship. Like they wanna talk about how fujoshi fetishize gay men and are out of touch with reality. Yet here they are, acting as those stereotypes they keep pushing onto fans of BL.(I’m not making a comment on the whole hygiene thing though. Because I know as much about their hygiene as they do everyone else. Aka, jack shit.)

by on February 13, 2023 at 8:24 pm
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Hypocrisy is the name of the game for antis! They don’t want anyone to call them out on their bad behavior, so they project it on others, give it a scary name, and start harassing people about it.

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Slightly aside but since it’s something I experienced before and that poster you reblogged reminded me of
 They say “ swastika” are inherently.. ya know.. but do you (general) mean actual swastika or do you many anything that looks like it because damn am I sick of needing to hide my families Buddhist shit when someone comes over in fear of some bullshit or using it in art because someone might call it Nazi instead of a symbol of a religion I was raised in. /: I deleted a lot to make this really small and to the point instead of a long rant so nuisance isn’t here but ya

by on February 13, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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Plenty of fancops probably don’t even know the difference. context link

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another idea for the forum, if you plan on having a section for social links on accounts (and account following)! social media links and such can only be viewed by those with an account, and a further option one can turn off and on, is that those links are only visible to following/friends/allowed users -@black-rabbit-fiction

by on February 13, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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If there is a section where users are invited to share their social media, it will be behind an account wall, for certain.

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I’m laughing my partner system is so sick of all this shit on tumblr they want to make a proship blog even though then don’t consider themselves proship 😂

by on February 13, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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“I’m not proship, but
” This is all because antis/fancops have convinced everyone outside of the discourse that “proship” means “offending pedophile” or something similar. V_V We hope your partner system does make a blog!

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At this point, we like coming in and telling weird stories from our system and partner (also a system,) so I hope you enjoy these. We were watching a video, and remembered when the Dudes ran the front for a bit. “Dudes” plural. Each Postal game’s Dude ended up as their own fictive. Our system had a Postal 1 Dude, and a Postal 2 Dude. Our partner system had a 2 Dude as well, but also a 3 Dude and a Redux Dude. I forget which dudes it was, but I’m 90% sure that for us it was Postal 1 Dude. 1D and one of our partner’s Dudes were (for some reason) next level desperate for nachos. Like, crying on the couch with insatiable desire for nachos. We didn’t have any real nacho chips though, and we didn’t exactly have cheese sauce laying around. Still, they decided that Lay’s salt and vinegar would have to do. When they were making the sauce, neither of them thought to look up how actual nacho cheese sauce is made. So they just chucked craft singles into a pan (like a skillet) with a bunch of milk and butter. 1D was stuck stirring, and the other Dude was chucking in cheese as seen fit. It was super watery at first, and they wasted a bunch of cheese trying to make it not-watery. Finally, they finished it, and they both devoured the chips. Nobody checked the expiration date on the milk though
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 They got themselves in some weird in-between with one end being “hey, do you also feel weirdly high” and the other end being “oh god why am I dizzy and a little nauseous?” They were fine in the end obviously, but here’s the kicker: THEY MADE MORE BEFORE FINALLY THINKING TO EVEN CHECK THE MILK DATE. Needless to say, we still chuckle a little over it.

by on February 13, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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You’re right, anon, that is a wild story! đŸ€Ł

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I feel like you would get a kick out of this. I had a monster fucker dream where the pairing was a haunted house x a new homeowner that just got the greatest deal of their life. The haunted house could make parts of itself shapeshift for the homeowner’s pleasure. It sounds like the craziest supernatural erotica novel ever.

by on February 13, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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I love this idea. It also sounds, wonderfully, like horny Encanto fanfiction. 😉 –🌀😎

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this is a possibly uncomfortable question, i apologise what is the difference between abusive parents and parents who just suck, but aren’t abusive if this question is uncomfortable, please delete it and have a good day. have a good day either way :)

by on February 13, 2023 at 3:24 pm
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It’s not an uncomfortable question per se, but our own history of abuse has likely colored our answer differently than people who were not raised in abusive households. In our opinion, any parent who is not generally speaking, on a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…

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