With regard to a self-ship imagine ask that we got that framed F/O’s actions explicitly with the word “abuse”– basically as soon as you bring the word “abuse” in to describe a toxic relationship (be it self ship or otherwise)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
blackheartbiohazards: Just a heads up that if we can’t tell if an ask is trolling us or not, we do delete it for our mental health. “imagine your F/O abusing” — nope, gonna stop you right there, chief. Don’t like[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: blackheartbiohazards: blackheartbiohazards: 👉 Sometimes, what one audience interprets as horror, another audience interprets as romance. 👉 Sometimes, what one audience interprets as romance, another audience interprets as horror. 👉 As an writer, you have to accept that every audience[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
When people– and especially young women– are attracted to “abusive” and “controlling” and “violent” male characters in fiction– The fantasy is not about being abused, or controlled. The fantasy is about a partner who is devoted to you, who takes[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This post makes a great contrast with that other fancops post about how we should ‘just not call ourselves proship or be obvious about it and people wouldn’t care.’
That sounds very interesting, but probably not to our taste. Thank you for sharing!
Yeah expect a lot of shipcest f/o cope posting from us the next couple of days because irl family sucks and this time of year reminds us of it. Disappearing to a gentle place where my family actually cares about[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: blackheart-biohazards: You cannot increase the agency of one group (children) by diminishing the agency of another group (adults). Censorship does not make children safer, because there is no safe authority to decide what is censored. Censorship takes away the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: king-of-general-disarray: lolipop-steve: lolipop-steve: Oh yeah, I just wanted to say that a child dating a person much older than them “once they turn 18” is grooming. This isn’t me misusing terms, that’s literally one way grooming happens You have[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Just some more antis not agreeing what proship is, and eating their own. Seems like it must be the day for it.
Sadly, most antis aren’t really looking to protect anyone. They’re looking for an ‘acceptable target’ to bully and harass that they don’t ave to feel bad about being mean too. And they’ve been told by society that accusing someone of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…