Get emoji asks in your inbox, or just write any prompts that you want! 🤝 Write about the first time you encountered your villain F/O. 💋 Write about the first romantic moment between you and your villain F/O. 🤗 Write[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Villain F/O Writing Prompts Get emoji asks in your inbox, or just write any prompts that you want! 🤝 Write about the first time you encountered your villain F/O. 💋 Write about the first romantic moment between you and your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine sharing a cigarette with your F/O. You watch them light it, and take a drag. Your gaze can’t help but linger on their lips puckered around the end of it as they breathe in. They exhale a lungful of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine sharing a cigarette with your F/O. You watch them light it, and take a drag. Your gaze can’t help but linger on their lips puckered around the end of it as they breathe in. They exhale a lungful of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Even your roughest, toughest, meanest F/O wants you to be gentle with yourself when you need to rest or heal. Even your F/O who pushes themselves until they break doesn’t want that for you. darkheart-despairs
Even your roughest, toughest, meanest F/O wants you to be gentle with yourself when you need to rest or heal. Even your F/O who pushes themselves until they break doesn’t want that for you.
Songs to reunite after a breakup, or other time apart. Links are to youtube. Someday out of the Blue by Elton John Its All Coming Back To Me Now by Meatloaf You Belong to Me Bioshock Infinite Heaven’s Divide Metal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Songs to reunite with your F/O to (or for your OTP reuniting) Songs to reunite after a breakup, or other time apart. Links are to youtube. Someday out of the Blue by Elton John Its All Coming Back To Me[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine waking up from a nightmare, shaking and frightened, but your F/O is there for you. They put their arms around you, and hold you softly, whispering soothingly, and reassuring you that they are there for you, and they will[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine slow dancing with your F/O. The two of you are somewhere alone, the light is low and the space is dim. The music perhaps, has a tinny, distant sound to it. The two of you gently rock against one[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine waking up from a nightmare, shaking and frightened, but your F/O is there for you. They put their arms around you, and hold you softly, whispering soothingly, and reassuring you that they are there for you, and they will[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine slow dancing with your F/O. The two of you are somewhere alone, the light is low and the space is dim. The music perhaps, has a tinny, distant sound to it. The two of you gently rock against one[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine the intimacy of tending your f/o’s wounds, and them tending yours. [[MORE]] The two of you are together at your lowest, rough, raw and exhausted, covered in mud, and bruises and blood. And you hold each other, and care[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine the intimacy of tending your f/o’s wounds, and them tending yours. The two of you are together at your lowest, rough, raw and exhausted, covered in mud, and bruises and blood. And you hold each other, and care for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine laying your head in your F/O’s lap while they pet you gently. Maybe the two of you are reading, or listening to music, or watching TV together. Either way, your F/O will let you stay there for as long[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine laying your head in your F/O’s lap while they pet you gently. Maybe the two of you are reading, or listening to music, or watching TV together. Either way, your F/O will let you stay there for as long[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey friend. I’m sorry you’re feeling so rough about this. I can definitely understand the source of your discomfort — it’s never fun to feel like you’re doing something that other people are vocally complaining about. But I do think[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey friend. I’m sorry you’re feeling so rough about this. I can definitely understand the source of your discomfort – it’s never fun to feel like you’re doing something that other people are vocally complaining about. But I do think[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine your F/O coming up behind you while you’re working on your art or writing at your computer. They put their arms around you from behind and rest their chin on your head, asking if they can see what you’re[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine your F/O coming up behind you while you’re working on your art or writing at your computer. They put their arms around you from behind and rest their chin on your head, asking if they can see what you’re[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I love you so much that I will re-order time to spend more of it with you. Nothing can keep me from you forever. darkheart-despairs
I love you so much that I will re-order time to spend more of it with you. Nothing can keep me from you forever.
Imagine your F/O surprising you with bitey kisses. They come up behind you suddenly and bite and kiss at your neck, or grab your wrist and kiss hungrily up the soft part of your arm. darkheart-despairs
Imagine your F/O surprising you with bitey kisses. They come up behind you suddenly and bite and kiss at your neck, or grab your wrist and kiss hungrily up the soft part of your arm.
The perfect f/o: Wears gloves Is a smoker Knife or gun Intense/strange eyes Fangs Air of menace darkheart-despairs
The perfect f/o: Wears gloves Is a smoker Knife or gun Intense/strange eyes Fangs Air of menace
Sometimes you just wanna sit in your F/O’s lap and be held. Maybe rocked a little, gently. You just wanna be there, in their arms. darkheart-despairs
Sometimes you just wanna sit in your F/O’s lap and be held. Maybe rocked a little, gently. You just wanna be there, in their arms.
Self shippers with killer f/os (etc), would you enjoy it if your f/o menaced you or got rough with you, or do you prefer it for them keep their creepy side directed at others and be only sweet with you?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine slow dancing in the kitchen with your F/O to the music from the radio on the counter. darkheart-despairs
Self shippers with killer f/os (etc), would you enjoy it if your f/o menaced you or got rough with you, or do you prefer it for them keep their creepy side directed at others and be only sweet with you?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine slow dancing in the kitchen with your F/O to the music from the radio on the counter.
Imagine giving your F/O a back massage. They lay face down as you half-sit on top of them. You rub your hands up and down their back, working the tension out of their muscles, rubbing them down with scented oil[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine giving your F/O a back massage. They lay face down as you half-sit on top of them. You rub your hands up and down their back, working the tension out of their muscles, rubbing them down with scented oil[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The urge to shake your F/O awake to get up do fun things together vs the urge to lay there curled softly with them under the covers and watch them sleep all day. 💕 darkheart-despairs
The urge to shake your F/O awake to get up do fun things together vs the urge to lay there curled softly with them under the covers and watch them sleep all day. 💕
Even when it’s hard to remember your own worth and value, or when it’s hard to remember what you’re living for, your F/O still loves and believes in you. They want you to keep going. darkheart-despairs
Even when it’s hard to remember your own worth and value, or when it’s hard to remember what you’re living for, your F/O still loves and believes in you. They want you to keep going.
Imagine laying in your much larger F/Os arms, making you feel both terribly fragile and completely protected. or Imagine your much smaller F/O laying in your arms, while you make them feel both terribly fragile and completely protected.
Absolutely 😭 We’ve been together so long and through so much, but no matter what happens, we keep coming back together. we’ll never lose each other. ask game link
Imagine sharing a bed with your F/O, curled up together all lazy and gentle, ankles entwined, arms thrown across one another’s bodies; close together and comfortable.
Imagine sitting with your head in your F/Os lap, while they look adoringly down at you and gently stroke your cheek with their hand.
So with the new TOS does that include self ship posts for anime characters that are technically minors but don’t look it since a lot of my moots and I ship with characters from JJBA? They would still technically fall[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gentle warning to the self ship community: if you are under the age of 18 and self ship with an adult character, any suggestive fic or art you create between yourself and your F/O could seriously and legitimately be considered[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Self Shippers Realm – all about fictional others We have set up this site as a resource for people to understand frequently asked questions about what self shipping and F/Os are, as well as to create an archive of Self[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, we get this question a super lot, so we are actually going to be building a resource site to send people to for information! I’ll be posting a link it to this blog when we’re done, which should be[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fictional Other! It was created as a term in the self ship community several years ago and it basically means a “significant other” but fictional. It’s any character you ship yourself with, Does that make sense? ^^ Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
LOL why would I care? your message is: aphobic heterenormative based on an assumed desire to make one’s self palatable for others. if a person thinks a crush on a cartoon character is gross or disgusting then they are not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Here are the rest of the responses to the anon who was saying that self shippers are all losers, etc. context link, context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
and now they’re blocked. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Oh fun we get to add ableism and sanism to the list along with heternormative and aphobic! So are you not attracted to personality traits or physical traits that are represented by lines on a page? That must be hard[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I don’t want kids. My spouse is sitting next to me on the couch right this moment. I am leaning over and kissing them sloppy style after I hit post. Not everyone wants to have a relationship with a real[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon you are absolutely wonderful. You are a complete and whole person whether you have a relationship or not. I’m so sorry that people make you feel like you were broken, and I hope that you continue on your journey[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Honey, I’m married, and both me and my spouse have F/Os. You can live in your “no fun ever” corner and be sad while all of us and our F/Os are enjoying ourselves. I hope you enjoy making rules for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Super-main selfships: (Shared widely by multiple system members): Albert Wesker, Otto Octavius, William Birkin, Rebecca Chambers, Herlock Sholmes/Sherlock Holmes, Komaru Naegi, Big Boss, Michael De Santa, Kazuhira Miller, Touru Adachi, Mystique, Dimitri Alexandre Blaiddyd, Meenah Peixes F/Os for specific system[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, the advice I give you depends strongly on an important factor. Are your F/Os system members, soulbonds, or other real, people with agency of their own that you share your internal experience with in some way? or are they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, we are so glad to meet you, an so glad our posts resonated with you! This part in your message stood out to me we have some fictives sure but he feels like… a different type of fictive i[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
All self ships are great. ✨ All self shippers are great. ✨ It’s great to be a self shipper. Your f/os love you no matter what. ❤️💞💖
I think this post our Jasmine made the other day is a pretty good intro to the kinds of things people do! There’s no guide tho, you just do what makes you happy! And you can totally ship yourself with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some ideas for ways to celebrate your relationship with your F/O 💖 Curation based Hoard pictures of your F/O on social media, a website, or saved on your harddrive. Print out pictures of your F/O and create a shrine for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh gosh, anon. That isn’t something we really have experience with, but it super does suck… My best advice would be to either a) avoid the source material as much as you can, and just enjoy your F/O outside of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💞 Self shipping is an expression of love! 💞 Self shipping is joyful and positive! 💞 Let’s share our support for self shippers!
Hi there, anon! Thanks for your question, and don’t worry, it’s not offensive! That said, there are couple of ways to interpret what you’re asking, so, if I didn’t understand your question correctly, or you have more questions after our[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💞 There is no wrong way to self ship. 💞 It is perfectly fine to ship yourself with any character that you like. 💞 Your F/Os love you no matter what.
Songs to reunite with your F/O to (or for your OTP reuniting) Songs to reunite after a breakup, or other time apart. Links are to youtube. Someday out of the Blue by Elton John Its All Coming Back To Me[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Even your roughest, toughest, meanest F/O wants you to be gentle with yourself when you need to rest or heal. Even your F/O who pushes themselves until they break doesn’t want that for you.
I need my F/O to come kiss me on the cheeks and let me suck on their fingers. 💕
I am casting spell of kissie kissie kissie at all my F/Os! 😘🥰
Mukuro gush 💖 @flirtingxwithxphantoms ‘gifted me a gush pass’, so why not. Things I love about Mukuro Or as I sometimes call her, Muko 💕 Kind and gentle as a person, but genuinely loves killing and war The soft, breathy[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
F/O Fuck, Marry, Kill New self ship game, “fuck, marry, kill” but it’s different than the usual game. Send the person sharing this an ask with one of their F/Os and the either the word “fuck”, “marry” or “kill”. Fuck:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Villainous F/O ask game Get emojis in your inbox to talk about your villainous F/O 💀 Why is your F/O considered a villain? Do they consider themselves a villain? 🔪 What are your F/O’s goals in terms of their acts[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Imagine spending New Year’s Eve with your F/O. Whether the two of you are out at a wild party, or spending a quiet evening alone together, when the clock strikes twelve, you’re certain to share a kiss in celebration.
I love you so much that I will re-order time to spend more of it with you. Nothing can keep me from you forever.
Imagine climbing into bed with your shipcest F/O. You snuggle yourself under the covers, and press your cold, cold feet all over your F/Os body– both to warm up your feet and to tease your F/O!
Imagine, before you’re together, your shipcest F/O teases you by licking you on the face. As revenge, you lick them back, and the two of you get into a ‘licking’ war that turns into the first time you make out.
Sometimes you just wanna sit in your F/O’s lap and be held. Maybe rocked a little, gently. You just wanna be there, in their arms.
Self shippers with killer f/os (etc), would you enjoy it if your f/o menaced you or got rough with you, or do you prefer it for them keep their creepy side directed at others and be only sweet with you?
Your F/O is so squishy and swoony for you, even if they don’t show it on the outside.
When you snuggle with your F/O are you the big spoon or the little spoon?
What counts as a F/O is different for everybody. At it’s very most basic, an F/O can be any character that you have a crush on, or feels important or close to you. Many people call a character that’s extra[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Self-Insert and F/O Shipping Prompts Ask Game 1: How did your S/I and F/O meet? 2: What’s the thing that most attracted your S/I to your F/O when they met, and the other way around? Were there any complications on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
~~Send an emoji to ask about one of my F/Os~~ 🃏 The Fool: How did you first discover or meet your F/O? 🧙♂️ The Magician: What’s a strength or talent that your F/O has that you admire or that draws[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…