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I think the thing that we hate most about social media is that every time a new tragedy happens, we have to update our filters to block it out, or we will be bombarded by waves of it, multiple times[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hey quick question!! how would someone be able to not read a fic with triggering shit in it without a warning without reading the shit that will trigger them? Simple. Don’t read fics that don’t have trigger warnings. Don’t watch[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dead-pidoves-dirt-takes: I’m literally begging y’all not to disclose your trauma in order to justify and validate your tastes in fiction. The people who are or you fear are going to get on your case about your fantasies, taste in fiction[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You know, it occurs to me that I don’t actually even know what fanfictons pro-censorship fans are objecting to when they say “it’s okay to write about it but not okay to romantcize it.” Because in pretty much every minor[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hi anon! Thank you for asking this question. I’m going to answer it in a kind of grumpy tone, but I promise I am not grumpy at you! is it okay to depict unhealthy relationships in fiction (ie minor/adult) when[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fictional stories and inside your imagination are the only places where you explicitly do not have to be responsible, careful or thoughtful of others. Do whatever you want in fiction and your imagination forever. No one is harmed. You are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
LOL honestly we’ve had the same experience. Those extremely hetero-normative life-script based imagines just aren’t interesting for us. Same for the life-scripty, heteronormative x reader fic. Every now and then we’ll see a “proship DNI” on a self ship imagine[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hadeantaiga: I really have noticed – as others have noticed – a shift from taking harassment as “trolling” to acting like it’s something to take seriously instead of just reporting and blocking and moving on. And I think that shift[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
palezma: palezma: I long for the day pearlrose is on a poll that isn’t “most toxic ship” “most toxic queers” “ship from hell” etc. 🙁 Yep. If you take power imbalance far enough it is hard to find a relationship[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
📝 It’s normal and understandable to want your writing to be read. 📝 It’s normal and understandable to want a see a response from the people who read your writing. 📝 It’s normal and understandable to be motivated to write[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
msnihilist: idk how to tell you this, but Black Butler is made by a shotacon.
olderthannetfic: prismatic-bell: moddeydhoo: prismatic-bell: olderthannetfic: – Laugh in their faces when they try shit. Bullies like smelling blood in the water. They don’t like being told they’re stupid children whose opinions don’t count, whether that’s by you actually saying that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You are always free to talk about your writing as much as, and at the level of depth that, you want to. But you never, ever owe anyone an explanation for why you write the fiction that you do, or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
xx-slug-xx: marshemillow: theassholeantiarchive2-0: superanimepirate: faggot-billcipher: ableedingpen: just-antithings: Good luck! I look forward to seeing yall tear each other apart in the process “so many of us are forced to turn to a site like AO3” Why. It’s disgusting and terrible[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
theassholeantiarchive2-0: superanimepirate: faggot-billcipher: ableedingpen: just-antithings: Good luck! I look forward to seeing yall tear each other apart in the process “so many of us are forced to turn to a site like AO3” Why. It’s disgusting and terrible and degrading[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
obianakin: some of you really aren’t gonna like this, but a creator’s wishes should never dictate what fan content is produced for a piece of media. in the past, authors like anne rice have tried to limit the production of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
tomatograter: Honestly? I dunno what kind of thought processes went on there in specific, just that the end result is jarringly immature. Of course, pulling back from taking ’Homestuck’ as the sole subject of our analysis & looking at things[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
proshippers-against-censorship: Call me a bad person all I want, but I’d rather write a thousand parent-child noncon shipfics than so much as consider telling a single, very real life person to harm themselves or others in any way, shape, or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
roach-works: lokihiddleston: violettenouvel: thediktatortot: Not people saying “Fandom has always been like this” in that vent post I made. No. It hasn’t always been like this. Fandom has NEVER been like this until recently and if you were in fandom[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
al-selfships: The “if you don’t want to get harassed, don’t post your weird shit online” take has to be among the ones I hate the most. You’re telling me I have to post “normal” stuff (whatever that means) or else[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
TL;DR: people are afraid of attempting interaction, because they are worried they will receive negative interaction in return. A culture has been fostered where many tumblr users, especially in young fandom, expect and rightly assume that they will be critiqued[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Controlling and restricting the things people are allowed to write or read about in fiction is authoritarian. Restricting the way, manner and style people are allowed to write about things in fiction is authoritarian. Censorship is always bad. Always.
samstiels-deactivated20201212: So let me get this straight if you consciously decide to throw yourself down the stairs, and end up breaking your leg in the process, it’s clearly your fault but somehow, if you know a certain type of fic[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
ceasarslegion: You want more minority representation in media but if they have flaws its problematic and if theyre perfect theyre a patronizing mary sue. If they crack under the pressure of the conflict the author thinks that minority is weak[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“You shouldn’t write that because readers might think that it was okay to do in real life.” A person with secure morals will never be convinced to do harm by a mere piece of fiction. “Okay but mentally ill people[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
world’s biggest corruption kinkster reminding you that naughty bad fiction doesn’t actually corrupt you. It doesn’t actually work like that.
calling people “antis”: confusing, niche terminology not understood by anyone outside of extremely online shipping discourse. Call them what they are– Pro-censorship fans who attempt to exert control over other people in public fandom spaces through harassment, threats and bullying.
You don’t have to interact with a piece of fiction that you know will be upsetting to you. If you interact with a piece of fiction despite knowing it might be upsetting for you, don’t fucking blame the author about[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
♥️ It’s okay to write or read about sex and romance. ♥️ It’s okay to write or read about sex without romance. ♥️ It’s okay to write or read about romance without sex. ♥️ It’s okay to write or read[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
wendydarlingfics: id-rather-be-home: curseyouperrytheplatypus: notmybabies: curseyouperrytheplatypus: Gay or not gay people above the age of 19 writing/writing smut about teenagers is weird and creepy. When you become an adult you don’t forget what it was like to be young, but you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Why do you believe that people have such fragile morals they will be corrupted by a piece of fiction? Are your morals that fragile? Why do you believe that reading fiction about harm will cause the people who read it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dead-dyke: You wrote about murder?? Murder is illegal?? You wrote about this dude killing someone and you didn’t even say ‘murder is bad’ at the start of the book, wht wtf, wtf is wrong with you? I can’t believe you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
✏️ There is no reason to assume that an author’s intention with dark elements and evil characters is to sway their audience into believing that those things are good. ✏️ There is no reason to assume that every dark element[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
spoookiepie: spoookiepie: I don’t wanna get too into fandom discourse but this is the funniest, most embarrassing shit I’ve ever read lmao “Why are you watching fucked up slasher movies when Cocomelon is right there?? 🤔”
I mean AO3 just calls it what it is: “underage”. And if it’s noncon you can just call it “underage noncon”. And if it’s between an adult and a minor you can go with “underage age-gap noncon”. You can also[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yes, exactly. They have the cause and effect backwards. There are not sexist people in real life because they saw sexist themes in fiction. There are sexist themes in fiction because there are sexist people in real life creating fiction.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“proship” is an ideology that means “ship and let ship”. It is the opposite of “antiship” which means “against shipping.” Normal fans sometimes use the term to refer to themselves, to make it clear that they do not harass other[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
paradoxtrollplanet: A general frustration I have with the assumption fiction, especially erotica, reflects the authors morals is that it relies on a very literal interpretation of a text. A movie monster isn’t just a scary creature and an obsessive stalker[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon. It’s not “just something” pro-censorship fans spread to make people look bad. It’s yet another element of pro-censorship fandom culture that’s tied to its conservative authoritarian nature. It’s racism. It’s xenophobia and racism. 👉 “The Japanese are all perverts”[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, thank you so much for this message because thinking of how to answer it, it finally dawned on me in a bolt of inspiration. I finally can put into words why pro-censorship fans will be fans of a piece[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gremlingottoosilly: Me when I am promoting harm (I’ve been chosen as official ambassador of non-con fiction and I will get the revenue later)
someone said: “I don’t want to live in a world where people write nasty fiction about (insert horrible thing here, such as murder, rape, csa, etc)…” ☝️ Understandable, but we all live together in a world where all of these[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
willgrahamscock: willgrahamscock: No I can’t stand the people on there, every time I log on there’s an argument about who tops and who bottoms in every ship, like what’s the point are you going to come into my room and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
kyougan: i honestly dont care about people being ‘free to write whatever they want’ if something bothers me i’m gonna talk about it. the massive flood of incest, rape and pedophilia fics ive seen under the leon tag is genuinely[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
myfandomrealitea: deeisforderanged: myfandomrealitea: spop-romanticizes-abuse: “shipping an unhealthy ship isn’t inherently a bad thing because maybe you just want to see themes of abuse and toxicity explored in media.” i agree. but i feel like there’s a difference between finding a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
a-crumb-of-whump: a-crumb-of-whump: Liking minor whump does not make you a bad person. Liking lady whump does not make you a bad person. Enjoying whump with POC does not make you a bad person. Enjoying pedophilic/incestuous whump does not make you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
valentineish: goldenzingy46: as-thou-will: scarianagrande: averyopteryx: somberbi: damnfandomproblems: Making a comment to get this to post. You do not get to take someone else’s OCs for yourself just because you don’t like how their creator is treating them. I’m absolutely adding[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
prismatic-bell: am-i-the-asshole-official: AITA? YTA NTA JAH NAH ESH INFO See Results What are these acronyms? Not only are you NTA, OP, you were following the rules of old-school fandom to a T: 1) YKINMKATO/kink tomato, or I guess in this[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🤝Glad to meet a fellow media-literate fan of RE. Honestly a friend suggested we ought to start a sub-tag specifically to get away from some of the BS in the main tag, and I am considering it. Maybe #darkresi ?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
lecalcifer: puppyfan9000: lecalcifer: puppyfan9000: “I don’t want to see a CHILD shipped with an IMMORTAL DEMON” that child is a murderer for the British monarchy Sebastian is literally going to eat him… I guess it’s fine so long as the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sals-sonic: Reminder that it’s okay to headcanon whatever sexuality, gender, or romantic attraction for any character. Yes, even if it goes against canon. It’s fine to headcanon them as gay, bi, pan, trans, non binary, ace, aro, aplatonic, and even[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
just-antithings: DNI Interracial??? So they’re a Nazi???
It really was the icing on the cake. Makes me wonder if they’re the anon going around for a month asking everyone if they think Wesker having a picture of an adult co-worker in his desk makes him a pervert.
Yup. Pro-censorship fans hold fandom to a completely different standard than they do the official media that they engage with– a hypocritical one. Pro-censorship fans are perfectly happy to indulge in dark media with the topics they claim to be[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I wish I knew why the pro-censorship crowd is drawn to things they seem to detest, because horror media seems to be equally inhabited by a) the most depraved (/pos), uninhibited people who align themselves with the monsters and freaks,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thing-1982: idk who needs to hear this but the resident evil fandom isnt a safe space for proshippers. half ( if not, all ) of your faves would snap your neck without hesitation if you showed them your shitty incest[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
just-antithings: ugh yeah people’s focus on canon as if a ship being canon automatically makes it the end-all be-all is frustrating Please, please please let Northstar, Ice Man, or Akihiro date one another fuck I am begging you– why do[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
pro-sipper: Do antis know that their “reading about criminal activities makes you a criminal” rhetoric is walking hand in hand with right wing “seeing gay people on tv made my kid gay”? Do they care?
First of all– the binary “for horror” vs “for romance” idea is completely fake. Just take a look at the slasher villain fandom. You can put elements in for horror all you want and people will still be turned on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Pro-censorship, pro-harassment “fans” who go around cyberbullying women and queer writers over so-called “problematic” ships are the reincarnations of victorian era quacks who believed that reading novels would destroy a lady’s morals. They’re conservatives who consider women ‘weak willed’ and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🖤 Your story idea is not too weird to write or share. 🖤 Your story idea is not too self-indulgent to write or share. 🖤 Your story idea is not too embarrassing to write or share. 🖤 Your story idea[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sapphire-weapon: people don’t fucking understand how twisted and hypocritical their mindset is about it. “reading or writing rape or incest fic means you condone it” okay well you’re saying that in RE fandom. RE, a series about characters who are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I hate to say this, anon, but part of the problem is twitter, tbh. Its just a toxic cesspool. we were on twitter for a few months specifically because most of marvel comics fandom happens there and we just couldn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fevers-and-emeto-oh-my: I hope they find something that makes them happy instead of just constantly being so angry. like genuinely, bc that’s just so unhealthy NOPE! they don’t SEE it it didn’t HAPPEN! that is SO funny omg i didn’t even[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh the answer to that is actually simple. They don’t reblog things because they’re (justifiably) terrified that one of their followers will find something problematic about the art or the artist, and accuse them of being a horrible person for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fevers-and-emeto-oh-my: PSA to dead dove Resident Evil writers: APPARENTLY comment sections are NOT for compliments???? Oh my, they’re ACTUALLY for unwanted criticism about the very basis of your fic????? Because we’re all SO evil for……..writing fiction????? “it’s okay when the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fevers-and-emeto-oh-my: by the way if you put anti shit in the main tags of your fandom you need a crash course in basic tumblr etiquette if it’s fandom wank or salt it gets its OWN tag to say “resident evil[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Absolutely true, anon! In fandom, with recent fanworks, it is often possible to reach out to the author and ask them if certain material is in their fiction. Sadly, with older fanfic, and with printed media the author might not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The anon who has been going around sending asks to multiple people in the RE tag for the last month about what they think of Wesker having Rebecca’s photo is just bizarre to me. Like. Invent your own interpretation, anon.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
⭐ It is common, courteous and good practice in fandom circles to use content warnings for things that you know are major, common potential triggers. ⭐ Not all fiction warns for potential triggering content. Most published fiction does not warn[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
kaiasky: anarqueeen: kaiasky: anarqueeen: Tumblr just put a fcuking harry potter post on my feed as a “recommendation based on your likes” Why not recommend me smallpox next. Or arthritis maybe. Settings -> Account Settings -> Content you see ->[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💖 Write the fiction that you want to write. 💖 Write any fiction that you want to write. 💖 Don’t let other people discourage you from writing the fiction that you want to write. 💖 You are never a bad[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
boundinparchment: breaking in for a second to say that a lot of the recent stuff going on for writers in particular boils down inherently to a lack of respect. for one another. for ourselves. for our hobby. from readers who[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
richmond-till-we-die: As I said before, I haven’t seen nor heard what exactly happened at the confessions account, so I want to be careful about judgement. But it’s very sad to hear people were made to remove their works from AO3[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Man some people *really* can’t handle the simple fact that “author chose not to warn” aka “may or may not contain peanuts” is a valid warning.
They simply do not. They believe everything should be accessible to them personally. They prioritize their own demands for comfort as an audience over the artistic choices of the creator. They lack self control to put down and stop engaging[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The “chose not to warn” post has reached the sort of people I am going to start blocking. Ha ha
allthingswhumpyandangsty: about this post — thank you so much!! liking whump is not, and will never be, a red flag. how you enjoy fictional medias — whether it be in terms of fanfiction or shows or books or movies or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
rnorningstars: tippenfunkaport: tippenfunkaport: That viral post that’s going around about how people who write “book quality” mlm fic are too “normal” to publish and have real jobs so only “weird” people publish their “shitty” fanfic is so completely out of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
maria-sklodowskas-twix-bar: blackheartbiohazards: princesstokyomoon: al-selfships: this has to be the worst attempt at an insult I’ve seen so far my dads dead so…. necro shipping it is! thanks antis! Okay but let’s go ahead and unpack how toxic and conservative this[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
princesstokyomoon: al-selfships: this has to be the worst attempt at an insult I’ve seen so far my dads dead so…. necro shipping it is! thanks antis! Okay but let’s go ahead and unpack how toxic and conservative this is. They’re[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
stereowire: do i worry that after reading this blog someone is going to look at the brainwashed super assassin they’ve been keeping cryogenically frozen in a bank vault for the last several decades and go, “shit, we coulda been tapping[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
✨ There is nothing wrong with writing or enjoying the type of fiction that appeals to you. ✨ There is nothing wrong with writing or enjoying mary sues, obvious author self inserts, or overpowered protagonists. ✨ There is nothing wrong[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
olderthannetfic: – Heh. Yeah, for real. If it’s tagged ‘shota’, I assume that’s because you’re well aware that it’s a nonsense fictional kink and not actually about real kids. Maybe they’re just afraid of haters, but this behavior will make[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
first of all– Also afaik what they did was not harassment giving harassment necessitates it happen over a long reoccurring period of time. That’s untrue. A single incident can absolutely constitute harassment. I suppose one could also call it emotional[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
mxsickfuck: It is so painfully ironic. I genuinely have no idea how they just fucking idea how they are THIS clueless. I don’t know how to break it to them that in the world we live in torturing people to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
rnorningstars: no offense but some of y’all should really consume more weird media ok some of y’all are ready to clutch your pearls at the mere sight of the slightest offbeat concept in speculative fiction and this can’t go on
catgirl-catboy: Exactly! Antis in the homestuck fandom, like, why? Homestuck had some depictions of dark content that made me uncomfortable. ME. The gore and murder guy. I will never understand what the people who want to strip dark themes out[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
shakespearefreak: I asked my therapist last week if she thought being proship was wrong. She didn’t know what “proship” and “anti-ship” meant, so I explained. I also told her that I kind of wanted it to be wrong, because it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I’m gonna say it. It’s unhinged to assume that someone’s taste in fiction equates to what they believe is moral or good, or is something they want to see or experience in real life. That is a bonkers assumption to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey friend, I hope I can clear this up for you. “Proship” is a piece of fandom terminology that means that a person in not in favor of censoring the content of fanfiction, and is not in favor of harassing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I agree with you in spirit. The problem is that you actually absolutely *can* make disgust the basis of your morality system– and doing so will powerfully fuck up your mental health, your perception of reality, and your relationship with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💖 You don’t have to justify the types of romantic relationships that you write or enjoy in fiction. 💖 To restate the above– you do not have to justify your ‘ships’. 💖 The types of romantic relationships you write or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
illwynd: raimagnolia: rebellum: am-i-the-asshole-official: AITA? YTA NTA JAH NAH ESH INFO See Results What are these acronyms? I am surprises at the amount of YTAs on here omfg Look at it this way, everyone. Imagine you walk into a DVD[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
My friend, the fiction didn’t harm you. Your mental illness harmed you. Random writers on the internet are not responsible for managing your mental illness for you. You are responsible for managing your mental illness. I knew while reading that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…