If your email is purpose-made for fanfic stuff and doesn’t have your real name attached to it, then it’s completely fine to use! Remember, cyberstalkers need real information to doxx you. Doxxing isn’t magic, it’s Sherlock Holmes connecting the dots[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
drinksglue: I think one of my favorite things is when antis are like “omg you got banned from AO3?! What did you write that was so fucked up that even they didn’t like it?!” because they just can’t fathom the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yeah things like “abuse” and “harassment” are pretty easy to define in simple legal terms. Unlike, say “childlike proportions” or “problematic.” Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
I think you’re right about a lot of the people who just have “proship dni” in their bios. Its the vocal antis that I’m really worried about; the ones ho genuinely seek out and abuse proshippers for fun. The rest[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh hell… anon, I’m so sorry that you and your friend are going through that. That’s awful. That’s hell. My advice: Both of you, delete all of your social media accounts (NOT your AO3 accounts). Create new tumblr accounts. Ditch[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The people who are like this and dismiss cyberbullying and harassing people over fic and art as “just fandom ship” drive me nuts. How can you look at our society right now and say that with a straight face? Source:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I hope they grow, and learn, and change. I hope they look back with regret and shame, and are able to forgive themselves and do better. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
It absolutely has the exact vibes. Like bullying anon what you are doing is perpetuating the cycle of abuse. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
freezing-and-i-fall: I love that I am always two accidental clicks away from literal, graphic live action porn but a fan work not showing anything actually explicit is auto hidden and needs to be appealed I also love that suicide baiting[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
frostkittensfanfiction: Reminder that “suicide baiting” is when someone tells another person to commit suicide. It is not when someone expresses the desire to commit suicide. This definition, which is very popular with antis, was literally invented in order to justify[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I honestly haven’t seen any of this at all? On tumblr at least? On twitter I know there’s some infighting between proshippers and lolisho enjoyers– specifically because the lolisho twitter users are not anti harassment and often go around cyberbullying[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
They don’t care about consistency they just want you, personally, to not be allowed to do things they don’t like. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Yeah, it’s not subtext. it’s text. it’s a thing that happens. It’s not like you can read/see the material and argue that she didn’t commit sexual assault. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
🍽️🍽️🍽️🍽️ That’s a good one!. 😂 context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Yeah, Kotoko commits sexual assault directly on screen in the game, as well as lots of murders. She is fully aware of and cognizant of the fact that she’s committing sexual assault. It’s not an accident or a joke, it’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Let’s talk about fancops ‘protecting fictional children’, with the regard to the belief that they should never be aged up and never be shipped with anyone. Let’s talk about Kotoko Utsugi. In the canon media where she appears, Kotoko Utsugi[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
razztazticffn: thelastvaultdweller: scottstilesliam-deactivated2016: I think as a culture we have all forgotten that fandom is supposed to be fun. It’s not that serious. It was never supposed to be that serious. Especially since most of the drama and hurt revolves[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I do not love waking up with ‘you know they’re a child, right?’ in my notes. Uuuh yeah?? It’s kind of the major theme of their arc in canon? Let me introduce you to the linear passage of time. Source:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I am also tired. V_V Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
It makes them feel like this guy: Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
I think you have a suicide fetish. It isn’t right to inflict such freaky fetishes on people without their consent. With so many people out there that struggle with suicidal thoughts, you shouldn’t be romanticizing or glamorizing that. People less[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s nice to hear about fancops potentially receiving consequences for their IRL violent behavior. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
They say “never attribute to malice what can reasonably be attributed to stupidity” but sometimes I genuinely believe that rather than being ignorant, many antis are using rhetoric to genuinely and deliberately cause harm. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
They’re not embarrassed because they think that being a bully to people that are acting “incorrectly” is good and noble. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
vaguewaves: Hey, trying to curb the bullying of fanfiction authors is no less important than fighting wider scale censorship and puritanical beliefs. I wish people would stop trying to downplay real people getting hurt over ‘silly fanfiction’ when its often not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It both surprises me and doesn’t surprise me. It surprises me that someone would say it out loud, but not that someone would hold that belief. Then again there are people who proudly say that you should beat your children[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh yes when antis suicide bait people IRL it is all in good fun, but when a proshipper writes a fictional story about shipping suddenly people are getting hurt! context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
💯💯💯💯 Someone else controlling your interests and behavior through fear is ABUSE. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
I’m so sorry that happened, anon. It doesn’t surprise me. :c Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Yes, none of the characters in danganronpa 1 or danganronpa 2 characters are minors at the time the story happens. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
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Pro violence antis, pro stalking antis, pro doxxing ants, pro cyberbullying antis. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Talk to me more about these flamewars, anon, because I don’t see them happening on tumblr. What I do see is antis/fancops attacking, harassing and deliberately creating a hostile fandom environment for proshippers, and proshippers responding to that by pointing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Sounds like the kind of random anon hate from antis where they make wild assumptions about the media you create and consume based on the label “proship”. We’ve gotten hate for writing “anime porn” before which we don’t do. Source:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
leoposting: 20s mobster bf whos weirdly affirming because he just answers everything with “alright boss” and “on it boss” and “good idea boss” and Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Wow, anti-self-ship anon! You really made a splash! Here’s what the people are saying: context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Oh no, random strangers find me unfuckable and unappealing based on my hobbies and interests!! whatever shall I do??? 😂😂😂 Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
LOL why would I care? your message is: aphobic heterenormative based on an assumed desire to make one’s self palatable for others. if a person thinks a crush on a cartoon character is gross or disgusting then they are not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
coockie8: I just wanna say this, since apparently this is a thing that antis do (fucking wild like get a life holy shit), but if you ever get a nasty anon signed with my username, that is 100% not me.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
rainbow-mio: Reminder, that you can always either ignore or delete mean anon’s hate asks!! You don’t owe them your time and don’t have to. Don’t let that anon hate make you upset! Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
That’s because when antis say “go to therapy” what they are actually saying is “I want you to be punished until you are ‘normal’ as per my definition of normal.” Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Um, actually, I think you better pick up a comic book, anon because I’m pretty sure bullying turns you into a bitter but charismatic super villain. seriously though, take your pro-child abuse takes elsewhere. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
and now they’re blocked. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Oh fun we get to add ableism and sanism to the list along with heternormative and aphobic! So are you not attracted to personality traits or physical traits that are represented by lines on a page? That must be hard[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I don’t want kids. My spouse is sitting next to me on the couch right this moment. I am leaning over and kissing them sloppy style after I hit post. Not everyone wants to have a relationship with a real[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon you are absolutely wonderful. You are a complete and whole person whether you have a relationship or not. I’m so sorry that people make you feel like you were broken, and I hope that you continue on your journey[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Honey, I’m married, and both me and my spouse have F/Os. You can live in your “no fun ever” corner and be sad while all of us and our F/Os are enjoying ourselves. I hope you enjoy making rules for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anti on anti violence. 🍿 context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Check out the ages of the big anti blogs– the ones that really churn out the bile and not just a “proshits die” post every now and then. The dedicated ones who make being antiship a hobby by itself. There’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I know! It’s because cyberbullies are more than happy to break and abuse rules to get what they want (aka get people termed) but us people minding our own business and playing by the rules don’t do that. So they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
catgirl-catboy: Okay, I’m tired of hearing vague “proshippers harass people too”, since you never give me a definition of harass, or specific names. I’ve seen antis count everything from “hey, nice blocklist you have there. Can I ask to be[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some people think it’s really cool and hip to be “above it all” and be too good for fandom! They think it makes them “intellectuals.” Source: xxharryosbornxx
Please someone tell me if this is actually about wrestling. Is somebody really made about wrestling shippers??? Source: xxharryosbornxx
I have realized that it may be helpful to the community to document my journey of finding out what happened to our blog, and hopefully restoring it! Please note: I believe our blog to have been wrongfully terminated via automation[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gaphic: Fun Fact! This is advocating/threatening violence. It is not allowed on this website! You can, AND SHOULD, report them for this! Source: xxharryosbornxx
You hit the nail on the head with the part about people “using boundaries as weapons.” Its awful. You cannot use boundaries to try to control other people. That’s not what a boundary is. A boundary is saying “if you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I’m so glad! yeah all of our sideblogs have two or three admin accounts that we control <3 context link Source: xxharryosbornxx
Mass-reporting to trigger auto-termination is a sadly common tactic among abusers and cyberbullies online in order to harm people who are posting things they disagree with. Here are some ways you can be prepared to recover from a wrongful termination[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dandelions-n-honey: If you see someone do something you don’t like/think is disgusting, morally reprehensible, or even illegal, be it something they said, done, shipped, wrote, drawn, believe in, etc that causes no inherent harm and your first course of action[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
boyoutdated: antis are running rampant these days with the same old same old 🥱 reminder that they’re anonymous pussies who don’t deserve your time nor your energy. don’t respond to them with your heart in tact, they could’ve blocked u[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
space-dorito: Wow I didn’t know liking f i c t i o n a l characters make me a pedo 💀 Gosh the fancops are really busy the last couple of days! Do they have an end of the month[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Because their belief that their moral view is completely objectively correct means that they make absurd leaps of logic. Here’s how an anti thinks. 1. “Nasty icky art is bad.” 2. Therapists would not tell someone to do something that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I may write weird and gross fictional ships but at least I don’t bully and threaten strangers! 🥰 Sending love to everyone who has been bullied or threatened over the content of their writing or ships.
Oh gosh anon!! That’s not how you spell kiss!! Kissie kissie kissie I love you too tho!!! 💖💞💕🥰
context link Yep. That is exactly why people hide that they’re proship. To protect themselves from unjust harassment and threats. Too bad this fancop doesn’t get that.
It’s absolutely the difference, anon. If proshippers were harassing antis on the scale that antis harass proshippers, they would never shut up about it. There would be daily callout posts. Bad actors exist in every group. There are proshippers who[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
That sounds like a very unhealthy relationship to be in, anon, and I hope that you and the other person can step away from each other. Maybe you can reconcile your differences later, but it sounds like you both need[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Because they mistakenly equate possessing a harmless aesthetic with being someone who does not cause harm.
Fancops like to have it both ways. On the one hand they consider their bullying and abuse to have no affect on people because its “just online” and its “words on a screen”. But at the same time they insist[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💌 I love you fans in weird fandoms. 💌 I love you shippers with weird ships. 💌 I love you self shippers with weird f/os. 💌 I love you writers of weird fics. 💌 I love you artists of weird[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you for not bullying people over fiction 💞 Thank you for not being a jerk to people who write or draw things that you don’t like.
Anon, I am so sorry that happened to you. I was really hesitant to join the self ship community when I learned about it last year, because at the time, my most intense f/o was a high school student (Mukuro)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You’re right. It’s because they’re all synonyms, and they all mean the same thing. They mean “I don’t like you because you aren’t like me, and I only want people who are acceptably like me to exist.”
There is a word for people who demand that you cater to their comfort and needs while disregarding your comfort and needs. Abusers.
It’s always okay to feel that something is: icky, gross, upsetting, disturbing, disgusting, repellant, triggering, nasty, weird, unsightly or in bad taste. What isn’t okay is: insulting that thing to it’s creators face, wishing violence on that thing’s creator and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so sorry that that happened to you. Online socialization is so, so important for so many of use that are homebound. It’s another dimension of antis ableism that that is something they don’t even take into account.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I have seen a lot of fancops using ableist language, and eugenics terminology and viewpoints. I have seen a lot of fancops hurl around racist insults and be openly antisemitic. I have seen a lot of fancops who are obviously[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Isn’t it funny how antis hold blorbo responsible for the atrocities blorbo committed when its YOUR blorbo? But THEIR blorbo is mysteriously perfect and unproblematic? –signed, a fellow fictive
We saw that post too! It’s so sad and upsetting… I think the anti numbers are diminishing, but the rhetoric gets closer and closer to other conservative stuff. It’s what we call a “moral panic.” :C
Because fancops weaponize progressive language against their enemies in order to demonize and harass them. If fancops think you’re a proshipper they don’t respect you, and will feel free to use any kind of hurtful language on you that they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fancops: Don’t respect anyone who disagrees with them feel empowered to use hateful language on anyone who disagrees with them use words like “racist” and “transphobe” not caring about their actual meaning, but as ways to paint a target for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: People have killed themselves because of cyber bullying. It is legitimately illegal (unlike shipping problematic ships), and people have gone to jail over it. These people legitimately cannot tell the difference between fiction and reality, and it is absolutely[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
scientistservant: blackheart-biohazards: I’d like to give you the benefit of the doubt, anon, but I feel like you might be trying to stir drama here? @scientistservant and I have been mutuals for like a year now and we have never[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: I don’t think I need to say anything here. “Cyber bullying isn’t real.” Yeah, uh, what was that you said about normalizing crimes??? Imagine being like this. Imagine saying something so horrible about people who get upset over harassment.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
panspock: “Tumblr is a stupid old website full of weird irrelevant fandom things that don’t matter off the computer” and “Things that people do to each other on tumblr, like cyberbullying and death threats, can have a big negative impact[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
goldie90: Villain f/o image under the cut Keep reading
stardustkylos: an absolutely insane way to end this year
weeaboobot: *gestures at big muscles* Is this a hot babe? Yeah.
im-a-problem-shipper: When you’re an Alien with normal biology like internal genitalia & your weird human boyfriend just has his sensitive & fragile sex organs hanging out between his legs like a monstrosity of evolution- & he has the audacity to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
megaphonegirlk: Winter in Londontown was a special time for most. The snow cutting through the fog and gathering on the ground in heaps for local children to toss about and form into snowmen on streetcorners. But Herlock. mercurial as he[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
megaphonegirlk: Maya Fey LOVED the snow. Back when she was young, some of the most fun she ever had was playing out in the mountain snowfall during winter. She and her big sister would throw snowballs, or build little forts[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dead-pidove-do-not-eat: blackheart-biohazards: The cycle of abuse I experience abuse and neglect I disconnect emotionally from the human race I acquire phenomenal power I declare myself a god I have to be put down like a rabid dog. Mourned by the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thiswill-hauntme: scotty-pup: Yes Yes Yes! good girl 😌
gamergalorefreak: “Playtime is over…” – This blond headed bitch named Albert 🙄
aselfuship: out of all your f/os, who would win in a fight?
wild-zamboni: Autism be damned my boy can reanimate the dead