Fujoshi 😘 Originally started as a misogynistic slur hurled by Japanese men at Japanese girls and women in fandom 😘 Is a pun or portmanteau that literally means “rotten woman” 😘 Colloquially means “unmarriageable”, “not good wife material” 😘 Basically[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
just-antithings: it’s like how antis kept making reylo trend and end up in the top of the ships on tumblr bc they wouldn’t stop talking about it lol
Thank you for not bullying people over fiction 💞 Thank you for not being a jerk to people who write or draw things that you don’t like.
Dear police. I am writing to you to confess to the heinous crime of having written fiction in which imaginary characters commit and befall many actions of a perverse, obscene and illegal nature. I remit myself to your custody and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I can’t take this seriously. Their username is correct. “proship slander”. There’s that phrase again. I didn’t think it means what you think it means.
Honestly agree, and have been tagging #fandom wank a lot these days. We still use discourse in tags because we know a lot of people use that term to filter out posts they don’t want to see.
anti-anti-otonokoji-twins: i much prefer anti-anti to proshipper because it doesn’t center my media preferences but instead the maltreatment and harassment undertaken by antis. We initially liked proship better because it says what it is more clearly in theory. (Pro ship vs anti anti…[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so genuinely happy for you, that is amazing! I hope you and your bf get to binge those re flicks!
septmilleneurones: blackheart-biohazards: The context here is that when this person says “pedophiles”, they mean self shippers who imagine themselves kissing fictional characters. I know I harp on this a lot, but a lot of these people then pat themselves on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
jigsaw-is-proship: Also, my point about pedophilia a few posts ago (it was about censorship) was that with conservatives (and antis too, and TERFs) pedophilia is whatever they want it to be! Suddenly a man wearing a dress and reading to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The context here is that when this person says “pedophiles”, they mean self shippers who imagine themselves kissing fictional characters.
The idea of a DNI in an online multiplayer game is… It’s bonkers to me. It’s unhinged. I’m as confused as you are.
Anon, I am so sorry that happened to you. I was really hesitant to join the self ship community when I learned about it last year, because at the time, my most intense f/o was a high school student (Mukuro)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I need to know more about this. What’s going on with a ‘proship dni’ pony game??
You’re right. It’s because they’re all synonyms, and they all mean the same thing. They mean “I don’t like you because you aren’t like me, and I only want people who are acceptably like me to exist.”
Gay marriage? Transgender discourse? Kink discourse? I could probably go on.
There is no such thing as fiction that is too self indulgent, anon. I hope you do post and share it. It is always okay to use your dark experiences to share your perspective in fiction. The world is richer[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
glitchcoremaster: normalize telling proshippers to have a wonderful day!!
Some positivity for self shippers with ‘young’ F/Os. 💖 There is nothing wrong with self shipping with a character who is portrayed in their media as being under 18 years old. 💖 Even if you are an adult. 💖 No[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
badmrkitty: Reminder that proship does NOT mean that you are personally okay with every kind of ship. A ship can make you feel sick. A ship can make you unfollow a person and never look back. A ship can make[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Man. We just wanna kiss fictional characters. Nobody gets hung up on the ages of the characters except you fancops. “she’s in high school”– she’s an imaginary idea! She can be an astronaut if I want her to be.
Just another example of fancops policing one another and spreading paranoia.
kawaii-pigeon: Maybe YOU feel guilty chilling at the devils sacrament but me and my homies are having a GREAT time!
candied-viscera: Imagine having a blunt/joint rotation with your f/os. Romance, rambling and smoke filling the air, snacks filling your bellies and warm blankets everywhere. 420 blazing it with the f/os.
There is an edgy, teenage part of my soul that always thinks of antis as “fandom preps”.
There is a word for people who demand that you cater to their comfort and needs while disregarding your comfort and needs. Abusers.
Hell yeah! 😀 Glad to see ya!
anonyrant: “why don’t proshippers ship adults together? they’re RIGHT THERE!!!!” we do, but yall STILL throw a fit about how it’s pedophilic for a 20 yr old to date a 30 yr old. 🙄
wandering-wolf23: Re: that post circulating on anti Tumblr. If you harass me, sui-bait me, send me gore, make a bomb threat, or otherwise make an ass of yourself to the point where I’m feeling uncomfortable, I am going to fill[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Presented without comment.
It’s always okay to feel that something is: icky, gross, upsetting, disturbing, disgusting, repellant, triggering, nasty, weird, unsightly or in bad taste. What isn’t okay is: insulting that thing to it’s creators face, wishing violence on that thing’s creator and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
People definitely have had things to say!
Imagine, thinking for yourself instead of blindly following authority. Fancops can’t imagine it!
blackheart-biohazards: ❤️🔥 There is nothing special and bad about sex in fiction. ❤️🔥 Abusive, ‘nasty’, illegal, or taboo sex in fiction isn’t any worse than anything else bad in fiction. ❤️🔥Reading or writing about a type of sex in fiction[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Our father in law won’t shut up about Ozark. We had to tap out of watching it after 2 episodes because it was too intense and fucked up for us.
Fancops don’t realize that a lot of our parents and grandparents just don’t care, or straight up loooove fucked up fiction.
I can relate to antis because our parents are also controlling, authoritarian puritans who shame us for our interests. But we don’t think that’s a good thing.
I’m not saying antis don’t understand parents that aren’t authoritarian but they gotta get it from somewhere…
kawaii-pigeon: cezaryinurbones: blackheart-biohazards: “Would you tell your parents” is suuuuch a privileged outlook. I’m not gonna trauma dump but we don’t tell our parents jack shit. “Would you tell your boss” is meanwhile an appeal to an authority most of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fancops never understand that other people have experiences different than their own.
Relatable, anon. I’m so sorry you didn’t have a guardian who supported your art.
terribleanimal: the rise of “progressive” furries that share an alarming amount of beliefs and characteristics with conservative puratism is hysterical but also somehow more annoying. like christian conservatives at least point to god and ancient texts to back up their[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fancops don’t understand that people have parental experiences different from their own.
Shocking! (Sorry you’re mom wasnt supportive.)
glorioustidalwavedefendor: proship-selfship: blackheart-biohazards: Take a look at this person who is saying the quiet part out loud. It’s not that they think proshippers cause harm, it’s that they’re weird. Not only does this person think that being weird is bad,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yeah the venn diagram between “parents who approve of their children looking at porn at all” and “parents who think it’s important that their children look at the RIGHT porn” is probably pretty small.
cezaryinurbones: blackheart-biohazards: “Would you tell your parents” is suuuuch a privileged outlook. I’m not gonna trauma dump but we don’t tell our parents jack shit. “Would you tell your boss” is meanwhile an appeal to an authority most of us[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Would you tell your parents” is suuuuch a privileged outlook. I’m not gonna trauma dump but we don’t tell our parents jack shit. “Would you tell your boss” is meanwhile an appeal to an authority most of us simply don’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
tiredofmygrief: blackheart-biohazards: So you want parents to be involved with their child’s sex lives? Is that what you’re saying? A parent trying to make certain that their child’s porn and sexual habits align with their own actually sounds like grooming[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
badmrkitty: pro-fiction-jellicle: We need to take away the phrase “violating boundaries” from fancops/puritans because they’re really just going the route of “you’re violating my boundaries by having sex in your bedroom in your private residence with your significant other” I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thehellspawnhero: flirtingxwithxphantoms: blackheart-biohazards: The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape. That’s exactly the thing I’ve[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, that’s very sweet of you to say, and we really appreciate hearing it. A lot of us in sinister system struggle with a lot of negative, angry, and even violent thoughts. We all do our best not to direct[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so sorry that that happened to you. Online socialization is so, so important for so many of use that are homebound. It’s another dimension of antis ableism that that is something they don’t even take into account.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
anti-anti-otonokoji-twins: sure. stop posting about me <3 peace n love and maybe dont hang out round people so willing to make threats of violence @catgirl-izuru You can not demand that other people respect your boundaries while you are breaking theirs.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Honestly, we’re happy to answer any type of ask! We won’t always know the answer, but we’ll do our best! I have a few pieces of advice for you! First! Your new proship sideblog doesn’t have to only be about[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I have seen a lot of fancops using ableist language, and eugenics terminology and viewpoints. I have seen a lot of fancops hurl around racist insults and be openly antisemitic. I have seen a lot of fancops who are obviously[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Isn’t it funny how antis hold blorbo responsible for the atrocities blorbo committed when its YOUR blorbo? But THEIR blorbo is mysteriously perfect and unproblematic? –signed, a fellow fictive
We saw that post too! It’s so sad and upsetting… I think the anti numbers are diminishing, but the rhetoric gets closer and closer to other conservative stuff. It’s what we call a “moral panic.” :C
Anon, you are absolutely correct! Sorry, I did take your ask as a bit of a chance to rant about my own feelings about the 6k year old loli phenomenon! ^^;;
antishipping: hey. proship community. i just wanna say i love you guys so much. you’re such friendly and accepting and amazing people. you’re so much kinder than the antis, which is a community i’m so glad i got away from.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I’m going to be real with you. I’m in the fandom that has a lot of actual 6000 year old dragon lolis in it. (Fire Emblem). And lots of people (outside anti communities) create lewd work of the 6000[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, we are so glad that you have gotten yourself out of that toxic mindset. Please take care of yourself, and have fun!
the terf juice, anti porn, sex negative attitudes are all rooted in the same place, too. Conservative purity culture. Its all the same shit you see in Fox news filtered down into fandom spaces!
We are realizing more and more than antis have no concept of people who think and believe in a way other than the way they think and believe. Antis seem to believe that there is only one category of people[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
scientistservant: Selfshippers who happen to also be proshippers are awesome, actually
Fancops seem to believe that “all things that are illegal are bad.” and “all things that are bad are illegal.” Which is just like, really fascinating to me. Like, what a thing to believe.
antisrterrible: Comment in question; Antis don’t realize it (the younger ones anyway), but they’re very much Alt-Right, maybe not all at once, but for every glass of ‘koolaid’ they sip or guzzle, the worse they get. Antis just keep on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Because fancops weaponize progressive language against their enemies in order to demonize and harass them. If fancops think you’re a proshipper they don’t respect you, and will feel free to use any kind of hurtful language on you that they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
muntiller2: nualie: waycesticles: blackheart-biohazards: Take a look at this person who is saying the quiet part out loud. It’s not that they think proshippers cause harm, it’s that they’re weird. Not only does this person think that being weird is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
On Tuesday, May 29, 2007, LJers – users of the then-popular blogging site Livejournal – woke up to find that their Friends lists were showing a large number of names that had been crossed out, or strikethrough ‘ed. It turned[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fancops: Don’t respect anyone who disagrees with them feel empowered to use hateful language on anyone who disagrees with them use words like “racist” and “transphobe” not caring about their actual meaning, but as ways to paint a target for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
things-antis-say: lmao, antis just be SAYING shit Antis love to make up lies and spread them with no consequences!
nualie: waycesticles: blackheart-biohazards: Take a look at this person who is saying the quiet part out loud. It’s not that they think proshippers cause harm, it’s that they’re weird. Not only does this person think that being weird is bad,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Except sometimes they DO call law enforcement! and the law enforcement says: stop sending us stuff about fiction, it takes our resources away from investigating actual real crime.
antishipping: 💕 reblog to give every closeted proshipper a hug and platonic kiss on the cheek 💕
Take a look at this person who is saying the quiet part out loud. It’s not that they think proshippers cause harm, it’s that they’re weird. Not only does this person think that being weird is bad, they think you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
cookie-crimes: being called a weirdo by antis is so funny tbh like yeah,and? I’m a weirdo, I’m having fun with it
The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.
frogsforthefrogwar: I wish more supposedly sex positive people were a little more normal about cnc kinks Like enjoying consensual nonconsent is incredibly common and completely morally neutral
marshemillow: It’s ironically poetic to me to see people on this site who easily understand that video games can’t cause real violence, nor is liking violent video games in any way suspicious or revealing of your true character, but then[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
❤️🔥 There is nothing special and bad about sex in fiction. ❤️🔥 Abusive, ‘nasty’, illegal, or taboo sex in fiction isn’t any worse than anything else bad in fiction. ❤️🔥Reading or writing about a type of sex in fiction will[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
undeadhousewife: lovergf: haha nooooo don’t recreate puritanism under the guise of progressivism because you don’t have critical thinking skills like for realllll stopppp haha
I’m pro shipping fees because it’s important to pay our devoted package carriers a fair wage. 😉
Watching fancops police each other is the saddest thing.
We have never seen happy sugar life, but this seems like really interesting analysis! Maybe we will put it on our to-watch list.
1dropblog: blackheart-biohazards: cezaryinurbones: blackheart-biohazards: And how about “if you think it’s illegal, don’t share it with people!” It’s even worse when they have examples to show you. Like i was randomly pmed on insta one day by an anti with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yup. But it’s not about protection. It’s about ship wars. The morality is just a tool to bully people out of making ship content for anything that isn’t their ship.
cezaryinurbones: blackheart-biohazards: And how about “if you think it’s illegal, don’t share it with people!” It’s even worse when they have examples to show you. Like i was randomly pmed on insta one day by an anti with sally williams[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
And how about “if you think it’s illegal, don’t share it with people!”
self-absorbed-pretty-boy: it’s so bitter to watch how many people are only now realising that the censorship of “morally bad” things will never stop at just the things they personally find repulsive. the problem with morals is that they’re not a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: People have killed themselves because of cyber bullying. It is legitimately illegal (unlike shipping problematic ships), and people have gone to jail over it. These people legitimately cannot tell the difference between fiction and reality, and it is absolutely[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I think it’s mostly the performative type. They don’t expect bigots to be interacting with their posts. But you know the second a nasty “proshipper” does they’re swinging for the fences.
rouge-the-bat: “i need to know if this character is an adult or not so i know if i can selfship with them!” …my dude you clearly are already attracted to them ??? like. gurl theyre FICTIONAL. do whatever the fuck[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…