first of all– Also afaik what they did was not harassment giving harassment necessitates it happen over a long reoccurring period of time. That’s untrue. A single incident can absolutely constitute harassment. I suppose one could also call it emotional[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Posts Tagged purity wank
mxsickfuck: It is so painfully ironic. I genuinely have no idea how they just fucking idea how they are THIS clueless. I don’t know how to break it to them that in the world we live in torturing people to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
rnorningstars: no offense but some of y’all should really consume more weird media ok some of y’all are ready to clutch your pearls at the mere sight of the slightest offbeat concept in speculative fiction and this can’t go on
ceasarslegion: ceasarslegion: Starting to think that perhaps the reason you constantly see “WHAT ABOUT PEDOPHILES?? YOU THINK KIDDIE PORN IS RIGHT??? YOU THINK THAT CHILDREN BEING RAPED IS LESS IMPORTANT THAN MEDIA????” on every single post that says “censorship is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I’m gonna say it. It’s unhinged to assume that someone’s taste in fiction equates to what they believe is moral or good, or is something they want to see or experience in real life. That is a bonkers assumption to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey friend, I hope I can clear this up for you. “Proship” is a piece of fandom terminology that means that a person in not in favor of censoring the content of fanfiction, and is not in favor of harassing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I agree with you in spirit. The problem is that you actually absolutely *can* make disgust the basis of your morality system– and doing so will powerfully fuck up your mental health, your perception of reality, and your relationship with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
roach-works: darci-tbh: everytime I see antis call themselves punk I lose hope in the internet again I don’t know how to say this but policing people’s right to create and consume any fiction they want AND advocating for the corporal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💖 You don’t have to justify the types of romantic relationships that you write or enjoy in fiction. 💖 To restate the above– you do not have to justify your ‘ships’. 💖 The types of romantic relationships you write or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
coiled-dragon: “We need more unapolagetically weird people!” You can’t even handle hyper sanitized Queer Romance For Kids without calling for death threats “We need more unapologetically weird people!” You can’t even handle furries with non-human genitalia without calling them animal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
eldritchtouched: fuckofffanpol: fuckofffanpol: fuckofffanpol: fuckofffanpol: So I heard that more people have been mis-tagging their Ao3 fics “for reach” lately. Obviously, I decided to go see if I could preemptively mute some of them, but I got kind of sidetracked.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
My friend, the fiction didn’t harm you. Your mental illness harmed you. Random writers on the internet are not responsible for managing your mental illness for you. You are responsible for managing your mental illness. I knew while reading that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sociallyanxiousdragon: Freak fandoms need to get used to freak fans existing again Curate your online experience all you want but you can’t watch the shota show and be mad underage ships exist and you can’t read the incest comic and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
There’s not enough yuri/femslash/wlw fanfiction, blah blah blah everyone is morally obligated to write femslash.. If you want to see it– Fucking WRITE IT then!! AND don’t fucking complain and throw a shit fit and start a callout post when[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
catgirl-catboy: “Murder is okay to glorify because nobody is getting off on it.” You sweet summer child. Everything is somebodies kink, write that down. I’ve met many people that enjoy gore and murder in a sexual way (and most of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thebejeweledwatercat: tlirsgender: tlirsgender: The performative niceys pastel blogger who knows all the right therapy words to say and the right micro-discourse opinions to have always turns out to be the actual devil it’s so scary. Some mf with like a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
for the most part “this story about teenagers in high school should be about adults instead” just translates to “My personal comfort zone won’t let me enjoy a story without feeling socially guilty that I’m emotionally connecting with characters that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
heyjudelaw: lizziemack: When I’m reading smut and the author breaks the flow of the story so that the characters can tell us that they have enthusiastic consent it feels exactly like when Dora the Explorer looks directly into the camera[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I wanna be clear about this post. I do not expect (or want!) anyone to go around tagging my personal triggers on the shit they’re posting or reblogging. I’m just really mad that the people who DO want everyone to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I am Bitching once again that the fandom pro-censorship crowd cries and screams and wails that everyone has to respect their triggers forever and no one should be allowed to post anything that even mildly makes them uncomfortable– –meanwhile here[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gamer-crow: notemily: mclennonyaoi: throwup-dust: mclennonyaoi: mclennonyaoi: mclennonyaoi: “it’s weird for queer minors to be friends with queer adults” oh my god. ohhh my god. intergenerational community support, especially in a community that is split so much age wise as the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We talk a lot about the decline of comment culture in fandom spaces these days, and I recently saw a post that reminded me of my prevailing theory about why that started. I can’t speak for everyone, but I know[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
treesah: spandexbutterfly4lyfe: soft-october-night: I’m sorry who the fuck is out here claiming they read classic lit to learn how to have a relationship. Chronic shipping brain is truly embarrassing at a certain point The tweet is a reaction against all[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Not every idea an author has ever had is related to their bad opinions, so? 🤷 It’s important to acknowledge that good art isn’t only made by the ideologically pure. But as for where you draw the line– I can[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
if pro-censorship fans were in the habit of going into bookstores or libraries, or hell–the amazon kindle marketplace– and looking at the content that’s available there, they would perhaps for a moment at least give pause to wonder if they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
really, how can you not eroticize violence, and horror, and decay, and destruction, and oblivion? It’s called the little death for a reason.
If only we had learned the right lessons. Unfortunately now we have a bunch of fandom “Jack Thompson"s running around.
when the pro-censorship crowd insists loudly that their glorified violence is *totally fine* because they think “nobody is fetishizing or getting off to it” I am just like– Are they willfully ignoring all the media that eroticizes and fetishizes violence?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🔸Sexual content in fiction should not be treated as worse or more terrible to write or to read about than violent content in fiction. 🔸Normalizing, trivializing and even glorifying violence in fictional content– while othering, and villainizing sexual content– is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🔸It’s okay to imagine any fictional scenario. Imagining something bad doesn’t make you a bad person or mean you want it to happen. 🔸It’s okay to write any fictional story. Writing a fictional story about bad things does not make[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
steh-lar-uh-nuhs: deramin2: bemusedlybespectacled: transfaguette: it is crazy how “if this childrens show doesn’t kill their villain at the end it’s irredeemable media” became such a popular opinion here. like people were calling steven universe fascist apologia. and to be clear[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
proshippers-against-censorship: necroproship: cosmileech: Antis will literally call u a pedo with no context, further watering down the word until it means nothing. Your literally normalizing pedophilia more then we are by calling everyone you don’t like it. Now when I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I had to ignore that youtube video for *months*, every time the algorithm brought it up on my page. A person cannot be groomed by a piece of fiction. Grooming is an intentional act that is perpetrated on purpose by[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
To be honest with you, if you believe that we should judge a person’s morality based on anything other than their real actions in the real world, and their stated beliefs and stated intentions, then that’s your right. It’s also[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I decided this needed its own post, so– Here’s some context for “"The content of a piece of fiction does not reflect on the morality of its author.” and “Your personal interpretation of the content of a piece of fiction[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
pojkflata: I am sorry but this tendency of hypervigilantly assuming every kinky person will violate you in some way if you happen to tick one of their boxes is beginning to approach “I don’t mind gay people as long as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
⭐ Fiction writers are allowed to put elements in their work that make their audience uncomfortable. ⭐ Fiction writers are allowed to put elements in their work that are tasteless or crass. ⭐ Fiction writers are allowed to put sexual[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so sorry that that happened to you. The amount of harassment and public hate that creators face these days is unhinged and untenable. I wish I had real advice for you, but all I can say is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I could successfully use my fiction writing skills to eroticize, romanticize and glorify a ham sandwich. I don’t know why people think you have to approve of topic as a person in order to eroticize (etc) it in fiction. “You[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Whenever I see someone making an argument for banning or restricting fiction about some real aspect of the human experience, like sexuality, rape, csa, abuse, etc– all I see is the pro-censorship crowd as the Marge “it’s true but you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
People who are not legal adults, both children and teens, have sex and sexual, and pseudo-sexual experiences one another. That’s a real fact of the real world, whether someone thinks its good, or moral or not. It is a fact[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
all-de-fandoms: Lmfao as a religious trauma survivor and a product of Christian fundie indoctrination myself I am in full support of calling fandom wank “purity culture” and the use of the word “puriteen” as well actually. It perfectly encompasses what[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If you can enjoy a character who is insane, violent, murderous, manipulative, and genocidal, but freak out at the idea that the same character might be sexually interested in adult but younger women, maybe you should a) reconsider why your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey anon, thanks for checking in. Here’s a list of people who shouldn’t post on wattpad: ✳️ People who don’t want their writing’s visibility to their audience determined by the algorithm. ✳️ People who don’t want the website they’re on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
auramgold: if your community couldn’t handle a trans girl with a diaper kink without collapsing into pedophile witchunting your community simply will not last. if your community cannot handle the clearest example of someone harming no one but herself without[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hadeantaiga: Why, though? The characters aren’t real. They are not real people, and they literally cannot experience harm. You cannot harm a fictional character! I, the author, am a real person. I am obviously consenting, because I’m the one writing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Constantly frustrated with the infantalization of women characters in fandom. That person is a fictional character who has been presented from the beginning of the narrative as an adult woman with a career in law enforcement. There is nothing creepy[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
himejoshikomaeda: i gotta know. do you guys see this shit? do you guys see how every time a transgender girl gains even a tiny bit of a following, she gets “called out” for supposedly supporting pedophilia based on the shakiest[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
❣️All fiction writing is serious writing. ❣️Alternately, no fiction writing is serious writing. ❣️Don’t let people shame you for what you want to write, or tell you you should be writing something else. ❣️You are not ‘wasting’ your talent by[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh okay, I found out why the resident evil tag was trending, and it was because the purity wank crew were harassing some RE dead dove style ‘x reader’ writers. So that sucks. I will not be linking to any[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
First off– I don’t think that any material that is presented to its audience as a work of fiction can be considered hate speech. Hate speech is harassment, insults, threats, “jokes”, anecdotes, speeches, calls to action (whether subtle or overt),[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
rosesradio: honestly the biggest thing i’ve learned during my time here on tumblr dot com is that interaction is loads more genuine than media consumption. like idc if you ship the most bloodthirsty animalistic incestuous cannibals, if you’re a nice[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
niece-jemima: niece-jemima: niece-jemima: olderthannetfic: prismatic-bell: moddeydhoo: prismatic-bell: olderthannetfic: – Laugh in their faces when they try shit. Bullies like smelling blood in the water. They don’t like being told they’re stupid children whose opinions don’t count, whether that’s by you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🖤 Whether or not a taboo, unpleasant, or illegal subject in a piece of fiction has been ‘romanticized’ or ‘glorified’ is an entirely subjective opinion based on a personal reading of the text. 🖤 You cannot assume that an author[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
clearancecreedwatersurvival: Okay I’m feeling kind of ranty about this still so I want to take this opportunity to talk about narrative therapy, kink, and fanfiction. Narrative therapy is a form of therapy that allows people to process trauma through the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🔹 Fictional characters are not real people. 🔹 Fictional characters do not need to be protected from authors. 🔹There is no moral difference between writing about good things happening to a character and bad things happening to a character. 🔹Fictional[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
zagreus: hyenabogblog: starlightomatic: despazito: girlballs: girlballs: captain picker isgonna finger himself his wife is. 44 years old. The fucking that old man website when someone actually fucks that old man Is there any age a woman is considered an autonomous[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
They discovered a neat hack. It lets them accuse people of a crime so bad that reasonable people are reluctant to try to defend the accused. It also allows them to imagine the most extreme punishments on the accused. Also,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💖 It’s totally okay to avoid fiction with subject matter that makes you uncomfortable, disgusted, or upset. 💖 It’s never okay to try to force other people to avoid fiction with subject matter that makes you uncomfortable, disgusted, or upset.
As a rule of thumb: ➡️ When the post does not have a large reach, or wide audience, and is unlikely to be seen by many people– do not engage. ➡️ When the post has a large reach, a wide[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Antis operate on the idea that “X is bad because my set of rules says its bad” instead of “X is bad because it causes harm.” They legitimately are not operating under the same decision making framework as you and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💖 It is always okay to write or enjoy fiction that is inspired by or based on other fiction that moves you. 💖 It is always okay to write or enjoy fiction just because you want to spend time with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
People– the people who are doing this unwittingly, rather than those doing it on purpose– need to realize that this is what normalization ACTUALLY is. By throwing around accusations constantly, they are numbing people and training them to expect a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Ya’ll need to learn the difference between: A) an argument that you should respond to in order to show onlookers that the argument is wrong, and that the arguer’s stance is not universally agreed upon. and B) an argument you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🔹 Someone else’s fiction cannot cause you physical harm. 🔹If someone else’s fiction is causing you emotional or psychological harm, or distress, you can put it down and not read/watch it. 🔹Your emotional well-being is not the responsibility of fiction[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
creepymutelilbugger: sea-salted-wolverine: Tumblr purity culture thinks this is how AO3 works outta the way gayboy im boutta read Murder Magazine
golvio: fnord888: Child abuse is a big problem, so it’s important that we don’t let children communicate with adults except their parents and other official authority figures. Everyone knows the best way to prevent child abuse is to keep children[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🔹 It’s okay to create or engage with fiction about whatever topic, theme, or idea that you want to. 🔹It’s okay to create or engage with any fiction you want to for any reason. 🔹It’s okay to enjoy any fiction[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
‼️ Fiction cannot cause physical harm to someone. ‼️ The only person who should have the power to decide if a piece of fiction is harming you emotionally or psychologically is you. ‼️ Any fiction you feel like you are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If you don’t intuitively understand why being an authoritarian or undertaking authoritarian actions, even when for a good cause, is bad– I cannot explain it to you.
It’s due to the global rise of conservatism and the panopticon security police state. Kill the cop inside your head.
No no no, don’t you know? Reading and writing fiction with scary topics in it turns you evil through the scary mind controlling power of fiction! You know, like reading Harry Potter caused people to become witches and get possessed,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The hypocritical and tangled web of deciding “what’s appropriate for children” is one of the many reasons it’s ideologically abhorrent to me to restrict what children are allowed to read. context link
I think it would be wonderful if all parents were like that. That’s very much the right approach. Well, aside from dropping the book on your head. 😉 context link
See the thing is that children reading literal porn is already illegal. (in the US.) You don’t need to normalize giving parents the control to restrict their children’s access to reading material to keep kids safe from porn if that’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Because when someone believes that a parent should be able to control their child’s reading material, that means: 👉 they can restrict them from ever seeing material that shows queer or trans characters or depicts being queer or trans in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
oh holy fucking shit that person who added the “parents should be able to tell their children what not to read” to my post is even worse than I could have imagined.
strangelock221b: coreyburtonthrowaway: coreyburtonthrowaway: coreyburtonthrowaway: am-i-the-asshole-official: AITA? YTA NTA JAH NAH ESH INFO See Results What are these acronyms? hi, I’ve seen the comments under this post so I’ll clarify something’s. Burton does not go to conventions like at all literally[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Just a heads up for those who like to moralize about what is “legal” or “illegal” in fictional stories– – the American speak of the house is currently talking seriously about trying to repeal the laws that make gay sex[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
See, here’s the thing. ➡️ When you have a community term that your community originally defined as “supporter of freedom of expression in fiction and artwork”– ➡️ but your enemies insist means “active child abuser”– ➡️ and the term is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“This romance novel damaged my delicate woman brain and now I need to have my innocence restored via paternalistic medical braindamage.” WOW THAT SOUNDS SO PROGRESSIVE! Lets hear what John Kellogg, inventor of cornflakes and noted hater of masturbation has[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Honestly, in the current climate I can’t blame you. If you want to make erotic art of your characters and you’re not confident that their bodies will be interpreted as adult enough under the rules due to your art skill,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Honestly, in the current climate I can’t blame you. If you want to make erotic art of your characters and you’re not confident that their bodies will be interpreted as adult enough under the rules due to your art skill,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So here’s an interesting development in this saga. It turns out that the rules on harm to minors in the community guidelines have been unchanged since January of 2020. (wayback link) Which begs three questions. why did people think it[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Day 3 reminder that tumblr is now banning blogs that include posts with: victims discussing their experiences of child sexual abuse suggestive art of characters who are drawn in a soft, chibi, or kawaii style. suggestive art of characters who[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
then maybe dont talk about your trauma on tumblr? there are other places where you can talk about such shit. no one wanna hear bout that here blackheartxbiohazards
Ahhh, now here’s the anon hate that keeps me coming back to tumblr for more discourse instead of deleting my account and doing something fun. yes, YES anon! feed my hate! fuel my fury!! your disgust only makes me stronger!![…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
bro you cant like minors and win 😭 blackheartxbiohazards
no need to worry about getting termed if you and your homies just learn to follow the rules blackheartxbiohazards
What’s wrong with the word proship? nobody outside the community knows what it means, and fancops are weaponizing that ignorance to poison people against the concept by telling them it means “problematic shipping” or outright saying it means “pedo ships.”.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Wow. Tumblr really did just say “fuck every anime/cartoon fandom in particular”. Are we gonna start having to literally post links to Wikipedia showing how old a character is?? I don’t even think I could post about the anime Mouse,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Sorry for sending so many asks in a row ashbkav bkav m Question: Is sfw shipping of two m*nor characters illegal now on Tumblr as well? How are staff members going to be able to keep up with this if[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
From that post you made recently: “What if you’re an underage person self shipping with an adult character?” That isn’t proship, that is comship. (lighthearted) You;re support for people who are comshippers makes you proship, however. –Satou 😹😹😹😹 context link[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So with the new TOS does that include self ship posts for anime characters that are technically minors but don’t look it since a lot of my moots and I ship with characters from JJBA? They would still technically fall[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
i honestly hope this pro-censorship wave is just a really shitty era of tumblr and one day we can go back to before – advertisers and antis are fucking this place up 😭 *looks at the social and political climate[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…